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What instantly makes a guy hot?

237 replies

BobbiPinsOn · 18/09/2021 14:22

a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

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leavesthataregreen · 18/09/2021 14:49

intelligent, beautiful voice and eyes, gentle but strong.

PermanentTemporary · 18/09/2021 14:49

Clean. I am done with men who appear incapable of washing, wiping their arses or treating their dandruff.
Hands - not quite this simple but essentially as per the Violent Femmes 'big hands I know you're the one'
Wrists - strong, clear lines, bones visible
Forearms
Something about the proportions of shoulders and chest. Dp isn't a big hunk and is quite delicately put together in some areas but has big shoulders. One sleeve off and I'm his.
Chest. Smooth, hairy, anything in between. Just male.

[Goes for a lie down]

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MrsSebastianStan · 18/09/2021 15:57

Hands
Smile and eyebrow action
Nice thighs

Pinkbonbon · 18/09/2021 16:00

I'm not sure if it works for every guy but I just saw an average looking bloke lift his arm up and back sweep his hair out of his face and - ooft. There was just something really sexy about it.

AuntMasha · 18/09/2021 16:03

Masculine arms and big hands.

Signoramarella · 18/09/2021 16:05

Tanned big chunky hands , full lips. Beard, tall, preferably big arms...

VictoriaBun · 18/09/2021 16:06

A slightly solid looking one , not skinny , not fat , just one you could imagine taking you into his arms and giving you a big hug. Own teeth and hair, nice hands , good conversation and makes you laugh.
I'm married , and haven't got the above

CosmicUnicorn · 18/09/2021 17:14

Voice. I a northerner but love the sound of a southern man’s voice (especially North/South London and Surrey) Grin

username12345T · 18/09/2021 17:19

@CosmicUnicorn

Voice. I a northerner but love the sound of a southern man’s voice (especially North/South London and Surrey) Grin
I'm the opposite, am a Southerner and love a Northern accent.
CosmicUnicorn · 18/09/2021 17:21

@username12345T
Fancy swapping houses? Grin

username12345T · 18/09/2021 17:22

If you're in Whitby! I love Whitby and the surrounds. I'm in London.

MoneyMachine · 18/09/2021 17:23

Broad shoulders that I can dive into.. masculine looking

Sonaftersonafterson · 18/09/2021 17:26

Confidence, a proper man.. a tight toned stomach, tattoos and a good sense of humour.

eightyeightmilesperhour · 18/09/2021 17:28

Broad shoulders, tanned skin, sexy eyes, smells good and can make me laugh.

Shurl · 18/09/2021 17:28

I also like a good nose. But for me, I like a sharp, slim, defined one, like a triangle on his face Grin And I'm always drawn to fair hair and blue eyes.

Pinkspecs · 18/09/2021 17:29

Tall, kind face/smile.

MintyGreenDream · 18/09/2021 17:30

Confidence and sexy eyes

MadamMalkin · 18/09/2021 17:32

Rolled up sleeves. It instantly makes most guys look x2 hotter.

If they have dark gloves of any sort, paired with the rolled up sleeves, x5.

Passthecake30 · 18/09/2021 17:33

A McLaren

BlueberrySugar · 18/09/2021 17:33

Good with kids and driven.

annacondom · 18/09/2021 17:33

Pays attention to me rather than talking about himself the whole time. Makes me laugh. Looks me in the eye.

furbabymama87 · 18/09/2021 17:34

My DH is delicious. He has a sparkle in his eye and a cute smile. What made me like him when we first met, was how passionate he was from kissing to sex and everything in between. He may not be everyone's taste but he's mine.

NantesElephant · 18/09/2021 17:37

Confident, funny, deep voice, footballers legs, a twinkle in his eye and hung like a horse.

TheWindow · 18/09/2021 17:43

Very good hygiene (I love men that look and smell fresh)
Tall
Kind eyes
Humorous