What instantly makes a guy hot?

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a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

Expressive eyes. Good eye contact. Lithe. Hunks o muscle do nothing for me.

But most of all it's his conversation. Got to be interesting, interested, and curious about the world and all its wonders.

Probably not. My husband can park in any gap, I get a warm glow (not in my heart) when he does a particularly challenging parallel park.

Intelligent and speaks English well.
Nice forearms and hands.
Tall.
Twinkly eyes.

Oh yes to dancing. Men who refuse to dance = instant turn-off.

There can be something very hot about being at a wedding or gig and dancing with some bloke you don't know and have just met on the dancefloor.

LIving in Scandinavia at the moment I can honestly say some great looking well dressed in a casual way guys here who also seem fabulous with children

Good dress sense, posture and gait. Clean, has hobbies and interests. Not lecherous and sees women as equals. Enjoys the outdoors.
Being taller than me is advantageous, though shorter men can be just as attractive if with the aforementioned qualities.

Wears a kilt and just the tip of his penis peeks out the bottom of it when he is standing up about to put his shot (!)

(A bit like the chap on the Scott's Porage Oats box.).

Always the eyes for me.

Fade to beard sharp hair cut
Crisp white T-shirt's
Big dick energy

@TwoLeftSocksWithHoles

Wears a kilt and just the tip of his penis peeks out the bottom of it when he is standing up about to put his shot (!)

(A bit like the chap on the Scott's Porage Oats box.).

How big is his dick?!?

Not in order:
Eyes
Teeth
Intelligence
Wit/dry sense of humor
Can hold an interesting conversation

Green eyes, neutral accent, broad, tall, can do something I can’t eg draw, speak Russian.

Reverse parking comes up so much on these - often the hand on the back of the passenger seat whilst they do it. I wonder why!

Maybe because it’s very reminiscent of lots of iconic American films? Always some bloke (Jensen Ackles!) reversing like that.

@DJSteves lucky you! Don't suppose he has any eligible mates from work?

corporate type, dark hair that is kept very tidy. used to see someone who matched this smoulder his way to the meeting room opposite my desk for a good few years. he knew what he was doing.

Piercing blue eyes, salt and pepper stubble, broad shoulders and arms, trim six pack.
and the cherry on the cake has to be a chin dimple! 🥰

Obviously a nice face - but smell also is very powerful. When you're chemically attracted.

Has to have an element of danger about them. Full of purpose. Northern accent (preferable.) Dark hair. Doesn’t smile readily. Piercing eyes & broad shoulders

@Ori3 are you from the south?

A field force of intelligence

and Awareness

and slight sense of humour

Ideally combined with good looks.

possibly not found wandering round Tesco’s UK especially as most Englishmen are mostly gormless phillistines (though some are genuine salt of the Earth - also attractive)

Wears a kilt and just the tip of his penis peeks out the bottom of it when he is standing up about to put his shot (!)

(A bit like the chap on the Scott's Porage Oats box.).

What??? I don't think I would find penis tip dangling below kilt hem attractive ... but we're all different...

Also, does Porage Oats man have visible willy tip!? I can't see it!

Can I just let you all know as a Scottish woman ... this does not happen 😂

Haha yeah seconded as a fellow scot, I'm pretty sure I've never seen a willy dangling out of the bottom of a kilt haha.

Beard, hairy arms and a nice ass 😄

Cillian Murphy

Smelling nuce