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What instantly makes a guy hot?

237 replies

BobbiPinsOn · 18/09/2021 14:22

a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

OP posts:

Passmeamenuatthetottenham · 18/09/2021 22:47

Dick peeping out the bottom of a kilt?! Wuh?

buddy79 · 18/09/2021 22:51

Self-assured
Dirty voice
Bit of a sneer
Funny
Defined arms preferably with tattoos

Never thought about driving before but I once got on a bus with a really hot bus driver, it was the way he was leaning sort of one armed really confidently over the steering wheel, looked like he could really handle that bus 🤣🤣

Blue4YOU · 18/09/2021 22:53

I thought the OP was about what makes someone instantly hot.
I get lots of the things we like about people (driving with arm around the seat or whatever.. parking cameras anyone?).
Sleeves rolled up - really- like Tody from that Ozzy Soap rocks up with his sleeves rolled up and boom that’s hot?
Or we see a well hung guy before we get down to business (to be fair it might not take long).
A nice smile? The woman in the Post Office has a nicer smile than creepy Colin in accounts..

I’ll stop being a twat- instantly hot is any combination of eyes/hair/body but it’s got to be the stopped you in your tracks, even for just a second thing (before you get to know how he drives or likes kids blah blah).

headlock · 18/09/2021 22:54

Funny, lingering eye contact.

OliveHenry · 18/09/2021 22:55

For those doubting the hotness of bald, I'll just say "Stanley Tucci."

Oh my.

PumpkinKlNG · 18/09/2021 22:57

I wouldn’t have normally liked bald men but their was a teacher at my sons school that was and he was so hot 😬 so depends on the person

DragonflyFairy · 18/09/2021 23:10

Good arms and strong hands

Reversing with an arm over the passenger seat. I just love this!

A cheeky smile and smelling reallllly nice.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 18/09/2021 23:20

Ahh d'you know , lots of these apply to my lovely DS .

Obvs not my place to say if he's hot , I'll leave that up to my future DIL

tootootaataa · 19/09/2021 01:42

Smile and kind eyes

Changechangychange · 19/09/2021 01:47

@znaika

Yes tall, bald. big dick energy and nice arms and hands. Also good teeth (not Turkish ones) and lovely smell.

What are Turkish teeth?

Voice for me. Slim, nice legs and a nice voice.

JaneJeffer · 19/09/2021 01:55

I wish I knew the answer to this question so that DH would stop putting the fecking central heating on when it's not even cold.

cestunestilo · 19/09/2021 01:57

I was in a restaurant the other day and the bloke who made my mojito was sooo hot. It took all my will power not to just gaze at him . ( but I was with my DH !)
Now I think about it he was a tanned, self assured , hot ( and younger ) version of my DH.
That's probably what did it.

HowYouDoinnn · 19/09/2021 02:40

Beard, arms, nice teeth and tall. Even better if in a uniform of some sort.

Shurl · 19/09/2021 07:42

There's also a thing about the eyes. DP can be doing pretty much anything, but if he looks at me with "want you" eyes, it feels like getting punched in the ovaries.

Not hot necessarily, but my dp also has fantastic "love you" eyes. That kind of softness they get sometimes when they look into yours, usually when we are cuddled up together. He is awful at hiding his emotions, which I love!