What instantly makes a guy hot?

[BobbiPinsOn]

a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

Tattoos. Beard. Accent. Not necessarily in that order.

Put them together and I'm done.

Tall, dark, good teeth, broad shoulders, strong hands and good vocabulary for me

Rolling their eyes in a "can't believe you are making me do this" way....
.......and doing it anyway

@Disfordarkchocolate

The ability to park a car really well.

Yes!

Yes... men like that, but ones who wouldn't be seen dead in a cardigan!

Ooh I don't know. I'd cuddle cardie bloke!

Definitely has to be funny and will get up and dance, even if they are no good.

I saw a bloke the other morning who was pretty nice looking, beard, dark hair. Pretty normal. But he was wearing those orange high viz trousers that engineers or building site managers wear and it was phwoar! Like he could throw you over his shoulder like a steel girder or something

Ability to listen, engage, communicate. Interesting and interested! DP wasn’t my usual type, but when we got talking it just clicked. He’s gorgeous looking IMO, but I didn’t really notice that until our second date. Feel very fortunate.. went through many frogs !!

Thoughtful, self-confident, likes reading.

@Disfordarkchocolate

The ability to park a car really well.

My car has self parking, does that count?

A big tractor

Dark hair, nice arms.

Men who look like harry styles ..haven't found one yet

Good teeth, but not fake veneers kind. Nice shoes. Not necessarily expensive or trendy.
Dark hair and stubble. Good sense of humour and easy going.

@Cuddlywaterfall my DH is usually ashirt in the office type but occasionally does big construction surveys and wears hi viz. It certainly does things to me

Twinkling blue or green eyes
Taller than me with well defined thighs
Solvent
Driver
Well read and witty
Irish accent

I really like a guy who says f instead of th

@CeliaCanth

A big tractor

😂😂

@Neonplant

I really like a guy who says f instead of th

What, like forty fousand feavers?

I am PMSL at @Timmytoo’s cardigan fetish

A flamethrower?
《runs》

Driving to work one day I passed a man, not particularily classically good looking but he wore a pleated kilt and had a baby in a carrier on his front. My ovaries clenched ladies. Phworrr

Intelligent
Work ethic
Shares household tasks equally and doesn’t subscribe to the men work and women don’t mindset

Its in the eyes.

Clever. Kind. Funny. Feminist.

My DH is all of those things. I also think he has lovely eyes and a lovelier smile but then I am biased.