What instantly makes a guy hot?

[BobbiPinsOn]

a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

Called Steve

Lovely eyes, smiley and chubby. Plenty of solid man to adore! (See username!)

Shirt sleeves rolled to below the elbow.
Clean jawline from ear to jaw.
Eyes that twinkle and have depth.

It's bright blue eyes and dark curly hair for me, but simple gestures can make someone scorching hot in a moment. My husband pours water on himself when he's overheated. It's not done in a posing way, but he's usually been working in our garden, takes his shirt off, comes to get a bottle of water from the fridge, takes his hair down (it's long), swigs the water and pours the remainder over his head so it soaks his hair. He always then runs both hands over his hair, sort of slicking it back and as it's normally sunny, it's all very glistening and glittering and good. Very good.

I also love it when he stretches. I don't know why.

@Mandalordeloris

Tall, dirty blonde, beard and tattoos.

I think we have the same taste in men ;0

Good teeth and kind eyes. I also like a bit of a beard and always fancy a guy in converse!

Charm.

Totally agree on the hands, lean but long fingers that have a good spread. Also a good kisser, caring person, firm body, decent sized dick.

Woolly jumper, boots and stubble
Quietly witty
Gravelly voice
Craggy looks - don't like pretty-boy looks.
Manly forearms - in fact this may be my no. 1 hot feature
I like specs too
Also I love tall and lanky, but not always necessarily. I have an acquaintance at the moment who's significantly shorter than me and makes me come over hot and bothered. It is that thing PPs have mentioned, confident, looks after himself, assured, but without cockiness or being up himself. BDE I suppose.

Quietly confident.

@Amirite

Good teeth and kind eyes. I also like a bit of a beard and always fancy a guy in converse!

You've just described my dp

simple gestures can make someone scorching hot in a moment

V true. When I see a man who doesn't know anyone's looking, being kind to a cat or something . Or sometimes it's when a man laughs. A very posh tweedy bloke bumped into my trolley in a crowded supermarket once and was very apologetic, I said no prob and we bemoaned the busy supermarket, then the way he laughed got my pulse racing! Was very genuine and lovely somehow.

A bit of stubble and a northern accent does it for me

Oooh yes a stubbly Yorkshireman 💗
Even the word "Yorkshireman" is sexy

How he looks fron the back. Love nice defined shoulder blades and shoulders. Chunky legs, nice teeth and eyes and a cuddly hug.

Men who look like this...

Tall-ish, their own natural teeth (really dislike veneers, the bleached look etc, it looks so obvious). Looks healthy, not addicted to the gym or junk food. Not obsessed with gaming or porn. Ability & willingness to do some of the housework.

And yes, kind to animals & children.

@Timmytoo

Men who look like this...

Yes... men like that, but ones who wouldn't be seen dead in a cardigan!

Dark brown eyes and an easy genuine smile. Surprisingly difficult to find.

Smell good.
Clean hair
Eye contact

Great teeth!
Slim but still broad.
Nice defined face and neck.

I'm drawn to dark haired men (don't think I've ever been attracted to a blonde. Except David Sylvian )

Wavy hair but not long , don't mind ultra short /nil but not long

Favourite accent is Liverpudlian

Not skinny

Must be able to make me laugh and have the same SOH otherwise it doesn't work .

BTW , the broad shoulders are all very well until you're giving birth to their child ..... my midwife declared "Look at the shoulders on his father " when I was trying to evict DS

Nice arms, hands and shoulders

Clean looking

Pays generously for his kids and is respectful to their mother. Not so much a turn on but the opposite is a massive turn off

@Ladyface
Plenty of them up where I live. I prefer southern men. I was born in the wrong side of the country!

Intelligent.
Sick to death of,
"You know what I mean?", and,
"I'm not being racist, but,".
I do like hairy men too.