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AIBU to ask DH to have a shower before we have sex?

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J1llae · 31/01/2021 18:13

DH suggested going to bed about an hour ago. I said ok, I’ll have my shower. Do you want yours first, after me or together?
Immediate fed up face ensues. No, I’m not going to bother says he.
Why not? Is it an unreasonable request? We’ve just returned home from a lengthy, brisk, sweaty but enjoyable walk.
Now he’s huffing and on the computer upstairs and ignoring me.
AIBU to think he should shower out of respect for me?

OP posts:
NotYourHolidayDick · 04/02/2021 07:01

I'm just Grin that she thinks that every cock goes flaccid after. I had an ex who could cum 3 times in a row. It was ace Grin

sammylady37 · 04/02/2021 07:19

@NotYourHolidayDick

I'm just Grin that she thinks that every cock goes flaccid after. I had an ex who could cum 3 times in a row. It was ace Grin
Sounds it! Grin
Shehasadiamondinthesky · 04/02/2021 07:29

This was a perpetual problem with my ex, he always stank and had bad breath and would expect action in the bedroom in that state.
I told him plainly for 20 years that I can't bear it and he has to sort out his hygiene and eventually out of disgust stopped sleeping with him because the smell would keep me awake.
He left me to get sex elsewhere and surprise surprise can't get a girlfriend. Shame, maybe he'll listen now.

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