He asked why I haven’t waxed my arsehole and said...

[Michelledances]

“Most women wouldn’t want that to be hairy”

Said almost in passing but I feel uncomfortable about it. Am I being too sensitive here?

Dump him. Now.

No you are not. Stick a wax strip on his forehead and say tada arsehole hair gone.

Has he waxed his?

Get rid. No part of me has troubled a razor since November. DH could not give one fuck.

Oh, and then LTB!

‘’At least I can wax my arsehole, you’ll never stop being one.’’

An appropriate response, methinks.

What an arse - pun intended. Leave that atrocious person.

Are you for real?

Thanks, sometimes worry I’m going crazy! I didn’t think it was ok when he said it

I don't wax any of my downstairs department. On occasion I will trim but it goes through a bushy stage first. Why's he looking at your bumhole anyway?

It's interesting that knows what 'most women' think about their arseholes,and yet your preference as an actual woman is not good enough.

He's a total pig. And I for one have never waxed my arsehole.

It is insensitive and bloody rude.

I do wax my arsehole (it really doesn’t hurt much at all!) but that’s my own personal choice to

Please don't attempt to sustain a relationship with this vile man. You deserve better.

Probably should have added for context that he sometimes is in that area

I think because of that he thinks he can comment as obviously he knows how much hair is there. I’m not sure. It wasn’t raised in a serious way and more in passing

You’re not being too sensitive at all. It’s a very personal thing to comment on and would make me feel insecure, though I still wouldn’t be inclined to get it waxed. I imagine that some women who have Hollywood waxes might have their arseholes waxed but I’m sure most other women don’t wax their bums!

The important question is does he wax his arsehole for you? And if not, why?

No you are not. Stick a wax strip on his forehead and say tada arsehole hair gone.

Guaranteed sexist pig. Why the f does an arsehole NEED to be waxed? Don't waste your time with a neanderthal, there are plenty of developed, fully brain functioning men out there.

How does he deal with his hairy arse?

Ugh. What a douche.

Some people do remove hair there. Others don’t. It’s the personal choice of the ringpiece owner and nothing to do with anyone else.

him first...

He’s seen ‘most women’s’ arseholes has he? Or interviewed most women about their waxing preferences? Or is he basing this bit of wisdom on porn and believing that ‘most women’ should be emulating the women in porn to better serve his sexual preferences - or rather what his overuse of porn has led him to think his preferences should be?

He’s a twat who is testing your boundaries and ‘negging’ you in order to feel better about what I’m sure are his many inadequacies. Get rid.

Oh joy, another ‘I heart waxed and bleached assholes’ porn hubber.
There are far too many of these types around.
Kick him to the kerb, OP. He is not a keeper.

"Because I didn't think you needed waxing."

I didn't even know waxing your arsehole was a thing!

Agree with the wax strip on his face.

Suggest an Immac evening.
He can go first.
I did exh one night.
Left it in a bit too long - accidentally of course.
Stripped the skin off his balls!!