He asked why I haven’t waxed my arsehole and said...

[Michelledances]

“Most women wouldn’t want that to be hairy”

Said almost in passing but I feel uncomfortable about it. Am I being too sensitive here?

How hairy is his undercarriage? I'd ask him to get his waxed first and then leave him and his bald balls to get on with their life. Maybe the pain will stop him commenting on anyone else's aresehole in the future.

@afistfullofdelores I love your response and it is definitely the one I would save for future use hahah

Tell him “You first!”, and stare into his idiotic eyeballs.

As some posters are wont to say on here...fuck that noise.

What a horrible thing to say.

Is he physically perfect?

You've gotta be a gutter press "journalist".

"Because I didn't think you needed waxing."

The winner!

p.s. And who gets to decide what physically perfect is in any case?

Are arseholes hairy?

An ugly sentiment that no human being would ever voice out loud. Your body hair; your business. If this were a relatively recent relationship, I'd be gone, and if it were a long-established one (I'm talking years) he'd be straight into the doghouse and the spare bedroom).

Sorry - but I have to laugh at 'ringpiece owner!'

Any man that would say that is a jerk full stop but to say it during an intimate moment? All kinds of horrible

If DH ever ever compared me to other women he had been intimate with he would be out on his ear

He needs to stop watching porn, methinks.

No 'decent' human being, that should have said.

Unrealistic ideals. Coercively pressuring you into preening yourself in a specific way that suits his desires that I bet your bottom dollar derive from over exposure to porn. I suspect he'll only get worse. Odd thing to comment on.

That sounds dangerous. What an arsehole!

I’m intrigued to Who actually said this to you “in passing”?

Jesus what a gem. Dump!

I’m shocked by all these posts to be honest. But I’m glad it’s not just me feeling uncomfortable about it.

He’s said other things, most recently commenting on why I don’t wear heels at work like every other woman.

He can be lovely though and has quite a few body insecurities himself. He’s very overweight is one of them.

What a piece of shit

I didn't know arseholes could be hairy! But if so then it is up to the owner to decide whether to wax it or not. Sounds like the real arsehole is your partner!

“I didn't even know waxing your arsehole was a thing!“

Wait t you find out about bleaching

Presumably he has to wax his entire self then, being such an expert in how to groom arseholes.

Say 'Why do you watch too much porn? Most men wouldn't want to be that shallow.' Then move on.

Sounds like a prince amongst men

I would not be okay with any of these things.

He's very overweight and he's commenting on your body? What an absolute twat. Notice his porn addiction much?

There is nothing about this man that sounds pleasant or attractive. RUN!

I'm laughing because of how utterly bizarre that is.

Why are you with him? Why are you not just posting updates and some great photographs as you get your stuff and fuck off?