Someone sent my husband naked pictures.

[Notsureibelieveyou]

I found naked pictures on my husbands email.
He says they are from a woman he had a fling with 2 years before we got together. And suddenly she has decided to send him pictures. He says he never asked for them and didn’t reply. Then he said he might have replied but can’t remember.

Does this sound likely? I can’t imagine thinking oh I haven’t seen so and so in ages I think I’ll send him a picture of my vagina see how it goes. 🤷‍♀️
Should I believe him? What should I do? He won’t tell me who it is he says he can’t remember her name.

His story is such utter bullshit. He's not even trying.

He's lying. Badly.

Why were you looking through his emails? Just wondering if you'd had any reason to be suspicious.

It's not sounding good I'm afraid. His vague responses are weird and like you said it's highly unlikely that someone who randomly send naked pictures out of the blue.

Surely he could have thought of a better excuse than that?

Tell him you want the full story or you'll ask her.

Does not sound believable for a second

Fucking hell it's insulting how little he can be arsed to even try and explain himself (lie). What a bellend.

He had a fling with her she emails her naked pictures and he can't remember her name? It's almost laughable.

Hes lying through his teeth, you should not belive him and I'd be doing more digging. What an idiot he is.

If it was text or social media I'd be prepared to believe he had nothing to do with it. But email? He has a prior connection to her.

In which case, his story kind of makes sense, but is also very convenient. I think he might be lying about the timing of said fling, at least.

Surely her name will be in her email address? Like '[email protected]'? Or is she using a business email?

He's talking absolute cobblers, I'm afraid. 'Can't even remember her name...' indeed. And he didn't even call you over and say 'look notsure, you'll never guess what this strange woman has sent me..'?

Keeping quiet about it is a pretty good sign that he asked for it. Otherwise, why not just shrug and delete? And I don't suppose it went into his spam folder either...

What should I do? How do I get him to tell the truth? Shall I contact her? I have her email address it doesn’t have her name in it. But I could email her?

Unsolicited nudes I'd believe. Social media has warped some people's boundaries. But not remembering if he replied? Not for a second!

Try searching her email on facebook, you may find her name.

It wasn’t in his spam. He left his emails open on iPad and I just looked.

Would her email come up in fb? Id demand his phone! And demand answers or he is out! Poor you OP x

Is there any other emails? Does he have social media? Does he let you go on his phone ect, or is he secretive.

He’s lying without even having the brains to try to make it sound believable

I'd be looking through his emails to see if they have been in contact, but then I am a suspicious nosey old cow. She must have got his email address from him. Are the pics really of her vag, that is pretty stupid of her.

No other emails. Just the one with 2 pictures. Her face not in them.
I keep wondering if it’s someone I know.
He keeps telling me he doesn’t know her name. He knows he can’t give me a random made up one because I will just search for it. He says he’s not discussing it.
She was before me and he’s done nothing wrong. He can’t help what she sent. He simply forgot to delete it.

Yes legs spread wide open and otherof her boobs 😥

What do you mean he doesn't know her name, are you sure it's even from this so called fling, it could be anyone, is there a message with it.

Check his sent and deletes emails (although imagine he would have cleared these by now). Google her email address, sometimes brings something up.

His story is bull, he would not have forgotten her name and you wouldn't send random naked shots after 2 years. If you did, you'd at least put a message with it, you wouldn't want the 'sorry, who's thiss' reply!

He's lying.

He doesn't know the name of a woman he had a fling with? Wow, he isn't t even bothering to lie proficiently.

He is lying. I think you either demand to know the full truth including name etc or he’s out and it’s over. Do you have children?

Trying putting her email in the Facebook search bar - it will bring up an account associated with it if there is one, and then you might at least be able to confirm her name?

He can't remember her name - but he recognises her vag?😂😂

1. he is clearly lying And he knows her name, he doesn't want you to be able to contact her
2. the fact he didn't delete it, and didn't tell you means he wanted to keep it
3. the fact he is refusing to discuss it now, knowing how much it matters to you, is telling you how much he is willing to hurt you