Someone sent my husband naked pictures.

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I found naked pictures on my husbands email.
He says they are from a woman he had a fling with 2 years before we got together. And suddenly she has decided to send him pictures. He says he never asked for them and didn’t reply. Then he said he might have replied but can’t remember.

Does this sound likely? I can’t imagine thinking oh I haven’t seen so and so in ages I think I’ll send him a picture of my vagina see how it goes. 🤷‍♀️
Should I believe him? What should I do? He won’t tell me who it is he says he can’t remember her name.

Is it a new email. There must be an address it came from. Is he just denying everything, is it a selfie..?

Trying putting her email in the Facebook search bar - it will bring up an account associated with it if there is one, and then you might at least be able to confirm her name?

This is a good idea; but it'll only bring up her account if her privacy settings allow you to find her by email - some peoples don't; so it will look like there are no results when there are.

There's so many holes in his story it resembles swiss cheese.

How does he know who it is if he can't remember her name?! He just got an email of a vag and thought 'oh yep, that chick 4 years ago. Recognise that foof anywhere.'

He's lying through his teeth. I'd tell him to fuck right off.

Well he's bull shitting about not knowing her name for a start

I've never heard such a pathetic example of admission in a situation like this , you can do better OP

He seriously can't even be arsed to even lie Christ that says so so much. Absolute tool

And he 'forgot' to delete it?

Oh, now, I wonder why that could be...

Sounds like he's quite a 'forgetful' sort of person, OP. Wonder if he 'forgot' how they got in contact again after all this time...

He's talking shite, of course he knows who she is, she got his email address from somewhere, he should have either deleted them or replied telling her to sod off with her fanny photo.

Oh FFS, you poor thing. He says he's not discussing it? Even though you're clearly going to be upset and be looking for reassurance? Pfft, bastard.

He's lying OP.

Actually, that's a point. He Can't remember her name after all this time but she can remember his email address?

Quick someone call poirot

He keeps telling me he doesn’t know her name. He knows he can’t give me a random made up one because I will just search for it. He says he’s not discussing it.
She was before me and he’s done nothing wrong. He can’t help what she sent. He simply forgot to delete it.

Well, he's lying, quite clearly. Tell him either he gives you the truth, access to all his emails/mobile phone, and her name or you'll email her yourself.

'Forgot to delete it'... pfft. Blokes who do this really do think we're all thick don't they? That's the most insulting part of it.

He Can't remember her name after all this time but she can remember his email address?
This struck me straight away too.

He can't remember her name - but he recognises her vag?

Well, to be fair, he's only saying that they are from a woman he knew a long while ago. They might, in fact, be from someone else altogether, someone he has known a lot more recently...

There's no face on the pictures??!!

So did he just look at it and think "oh I recognise that fanny from a couple of years ago....now what WAS her name?.."

What a load of bollox.

He can't remember her name - but he recognises her vag?😂😂

True!!!! How does he know it was that particular woman if he can't remember her name and it wasn't in the email? God almighty how is there any doubt whether he's lying or not.

He keeps saying it’s none of my business as it was before me.
Nothing comes up when I search.
It’s driving me mad! I need to bloody know what’s going on!

I think you already know what's going on, OP.

Any man who was innocent would have been so desperate to prove his innocence in all this that he'd be all over finding out who she was, why she sent the pictures. Or would have sighed and deleted them as soon as they came in, with a muttered 'bloody lunatic'.

He keeps saying it’s none of my business as it was before me.

Tell him that the pictures being sent now makes it your business.

Did he have that same email address before he met u? He’s obviously lying that he can’t remember her name

You know what's going on. He is exchanging naked pics and telling you to keep out.

He isn't willing to talk to you about this, even though he knows it would help.
He is actively dismissing you.

Now is when you need to decide what you will do about it

I think the recent pictures make it your business.

If there's no face, this is just as likely to be from someone he doesn't know. It's part of what's called "sugar babying". He's paid money to access some catfish Insta account, and now he's paying for pics of random body parts. They're probably not even her body parts, they're screenshots from the Amateur section on PornHub

Many, many young women I know do this. It's quite lucrative. If this is what is happening, he's not having an affair, but he's spending your family's money on this shit.

He had a fling, yet can't remember her name - really?
It IS your business. He's received the emails now!
If it means nothing, why didn't he delete them?

At the least, he's being extremely disrespectful by not deleting them and saying it's none of your business. At worst... Well you know what this means.

How long have you been together?