Someone sent my husband naked pictures.

[Notsureibelieveyou]

I found naked pictures on my husbands email.
He says they are from a woman he had a fling with 2 years before we got together. And suddenly she has decided to send him pictures. He says he never asked for them and didn’t reply. Then he said he might have replied but can’t remember.

Does this sound likely? I can’t imagine thinking oh I haven’t seen so and so in ages I think I’ll send him a picture of my vagina see how it goes. 🤷‍♀️
Should I believe him? What should I do? He won’t tell me who it is he says he can’t remember her name.

Snap ! Shark 😀

And I'm really sorry you are in this shit situation OP. Do you have a friend you can meet up with to talk to?

And yes really bloody good idea from Sharkwithknees

@Notsureibelieveyou Sorry OP, pretty certain he's lying. The 'none of your business' thing is such bullshit - he's receiving these pictures whilst you're together - that makes it your business.

Out of sneakiness I would have made a new email account and pretended to be him - say the other emails were found so needed a secret account - problem is he could've given OW a heads up by now. Will he not let you on his phone? I'm a firm believer in there is nothing to hide they should let you.

Try emailing her anyway and say you don't appreciate her sending YOUR HUSBAND vag shots, if there is anything else going on you need to know, if not, then to 'kindly' fuck off.

If he has given her a heads up then a new email account would be plausible....

That’s a good idea! I’ll do it now

Send an email, ask why have you sent me the photos. Don't put your name on it, she will wonder who she has sent them to. Did you manage to keep a copy of the email and photo. How has he been behaving. Do you still have access to his phone or email account.

Create a new email under his name.

Email her, tell her "I had to make a new account cos my wife found the pictures and was nosing into my emails"

See how she responds.

No I don’t usually have access. Iv put hi it’s *** this is my new email address. How are you? X

If this is a young woman selling 'baby' services on the internet, look her email up on PayPal. That's how he's being paying her (and probably others!)

Oh, and he won't really be communicating with her by email. That's just for payment and pics

he might have replied but can’t remember.

This is such bollocks.

This sounds like a cam girl to be honest. Sounds like he has paid her.
I agree look her up on PayPal.

It's definitely your business if it's you that's with him now. He can't remember her name? He can't remember if he replied? I'm sure if someone had sent me an unsolicited dick pick I'd remember if I replied!

While I have received unsolicited dick pics they haven't been unsolicited emails ie these are people I've been talking to already and they have just overstepped the mark.

Due to having a male name in my email I do get a lot of spam, never received an unsolicited picture and the emails I do get offering services are never a generic email it's always a girls name. To me the non named email sounds like it could have been a deliberate set up to hide someones identity just in case the unopened email was seen

If you can't find anything OP it's because he's deleted any exchanges. No woman would send a photo of herself like that out of the blue.

I need to know the outcome of this, cant believe he’s saying he doesn’t know her name etc. Arghhh infuriating!!!
Hope she replys to the email op, if he has her number he might warn her you might be in touch though so go with your instincts.
Sorry hes put you through this xx

If he has so little respect for you that he can lie so blatantly, you should leave him.

Creating a fake email address is exactly how I caught out my H the first time.

It was VERY revealing.

Wow, I'm waiting and anticipating now.
What a good idea with the slight change in an email.
My dick head created another FB account.

Hope you get the answers you are looking for xx

Thanks everyone. No reply yet. I will update.

He thinks you're stupid yes. As if she'd go RIGHT in with naked photos. No ''how you doing?'' first? hmmmm

I asked my friendly local sugar babies (yes, all the pics they send are screenshots from PornHub!) about how they'd respond to the email. They said they would email the original address first, just to check. However, they also said that many sbs are daft, and may not think of that, so just monitor the email and see what happens.

They also confirmed that they have the men who message them across multiple platforms, email isn't a thing they use much. It starts on Insta (which is how men find them) then they move it across multiple platforms, depending on what they're doing. So look for his Insta account, see who he's following. Unless he's set up a fake one specifically for this, you should find her on there.

Don't know anything about how cam girls operate, sorry.

Let us know

What a load of bollocks that is. So sorry op but don't give up.

Have you put her email into Google? I know someone suggested fb but if her email is linked to anything, it might show up in google. Also, try just putting the first part of the email into google and search that.

For example if it was [email protected] just search for legsopen123

I had to search for dh's ex once. Won't go into why but the first part of her email was also her Instagram name and also her plenty of fish dating username.

Sorry if you've already tried that.

Don't give up though op, it's good that you've got your wits about you - you will get to the bottom of it