Someone sent my husband naked pictures.

[Notsureibelieveyou]

I found naked pictures on my husbands email.
He says they are from a woman he had a fling with 2 years before we got together. And suddenly she has decided to send him pictures. He says he never asked for them and didn’t reply. Then he said he might have replied but can’t remember.

Does this sound likely? I can’t imagine thinking oh I haven’t seen so and so in ages I think I’ll send him a picture of my vagina see how it goes. 🤷‍♀️
Should I believe him? What should I do? He won’t tell me who it is he says he can’t remember her name.

II hope you get to the bottom of it Op, he's definitely lying about something

I hope you get some answers.

It bloody awful to have to resort to snooping on your own husband because you can tell he's lying to you

Hope you get the answers you want OP

I'd have gone batshit crazy at him by now - this is not a good thing!
You seem very level headed OP. Hoping he will eventually have some balls to tell you the truth before you have to find out yourself

Send another email saying ' got the pics ' so she thinks it's him.

Although I guess these cam girls or whatever they are must be wise to wives finding out and trying to get more info .

I’ve been in a similar position. It’s bloody horrible. Sorry OP x

I’ve had dodgy porn spam emails but they are always really clearly spam, with subject titles about my dick with loads of love hearts etc (I’m a woman)

My DP would definitely tell me if he got nude photos from an ex, even if he thought it would upset me - which I know is the reason many man give for keeping these unsolicited approaches they all seemingly get from women a secret 🙄 - which to me is a sign I can trust him. He’s told me about exes waving at him on Facebook messenger etc and shown them to me. Someone who has nothing to hide, doesn’t hide.

Well, he's been caught, told a hasty, stupid, self evident lie and has then tried to shut you down by being 'offended' that you don't trust him. Sorry op sometimes the blatantly obvious answer is just that, the answer. He might be sleepingwith her or paying to get the photos, either way he's a liar.

Yeah sounds dodgy, as a pp said, if he was completely innocent he would be doing everything to reassure you

Oooo good plan, try and catch them out.

Has she replied to your email

Are you ok OP?

Not ok. Iv had no response from her. He won’t tell me who it is says he’s not 100% certain anyway. He’s adamant hes not done anything wrong.
I just know he’s lying I can tell. He knows who it is. He swears blind he hasn’t cheated on me. He’s left till I can sort myself out.
I’m never going to get closure on this. I just keep thinking about it all the time. I don’t know what to do now.

So - if he hasn't done anything wrong, then someone has sent him totally unsolicted naked pictures. And he's not interested in knowing who, or why? Or reassuring you in any way? He just gets defensive?

Those are not the responses of someone who is completely innocent, and you know it. He might be swearing blind he hasn't 'cheated', but he probably just means he hasn't actually had his dick in her. It depends on what you mean by 'cheating' doesn't it?

You know, OP. You might not ever get closure, but is his behaviour the behaviour of a decent bloke that you can continue to be with?

Regardless of whether hes slept with her or not. I highly doubt these pictures were unsolicited.

You know he's lying,he could of tipped her off not to reply( I tried to catch my exh out the same way) note : ex

What a complete load of bullshit

What are you going to do OP? Stay or split?

I think I'd have said "my other email isn't secure so use this one" to discourage her checking with him via the original email.

Oh, that's not good. But like you said, I truly doubt it was unsolicited. And even if they haven't exchanged bodily fluids, the fact he won't/can't reassure you and apologize for hurting you isn't great.

When someone's email account is hacked, does it not send those dodgy emails, viagra etc to everyone in the persons email contact list?
I've received emails from friends of mine that are those junk emails. Was it one of those?

No Sadie it wasn’t it was 2 pictures. No advertisements or anything like that. She’s in her living room.

And he’s left until you sort yourself out? Stuff that.

He's left...everything he's doing just suggests he's guilty

Did you try looking her up on Insta?

I have had numerous nude pictures of a woman, I also have late night requests to pick her up by text and voicemail as she is bladdered. I guess that I am a wrong number in her phone!