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GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

998 replies

Ifonlyhewould · 09/05/2007 12:32

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

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Paddlechick666 · 19/07/2007 22:22

surely not a wind up?

UsedToBeMLS · 20/07/2007 07:11

Hi everyone it's me

No idea if that is harmony or not. I've never said her name on here so why she would chose to identify herself I have no idea. But H swears it's not him so I have to assume it is her.

I have asked MN towers to deleted every post in my name.

I'll lose all my history on my old threads but hey, I suppose it's time for a new start.

I won't get the threads deleted in case people still want them.

But I will name change now and e-mail you all. I also think I'm going to stop using the site for relationship stuff now. I just can't take anymore. I don't deserve this.

Thank you all for your support and all the strength you've given me. We will still do the meet up one day so I can buy you all a drink

MLS xx

Dumbledior · 20/07/2007 07:41

Well, it could only be a troll if it was one of the G&F group, because no-one else knows her name. I find it hard to believe that, so I'm guessing it really is her. Have you asked MNHQ?

What a shame to have to stop using MN because of her. Remember you have all our email addresses and most of us are on MSN. Please don't stop getting support from us. You have done nothing wrong, and are the innocent in this situation.

Thinking of you, and I'll look forward to that drink

ernest · 20/07/2007 08:02

good morning fagot friends, am amazed at recent post. Just this one???

Not been around for ages - stuck to a couple of trivial threads, but still struggling with mil situation. She had her brain tumour removed 4 weeks ago, had 1 good day afeter then op, then 2 days after she had a seizure then it's been 1 thing after another - build up of brain fluid requiring 2 emergency ops, pneumonia, scepticemia, you name it... Cannot believe she's still clinging on. Dh Been back & forth to UK, said his final goodbye 2 weeks ago & she's still clinging on, but heavily sedated & pretty much the whole time iunconscious. It's been tremendously difficult for us all, sil had her baby, a little girl on Saturday, so she now can't go to visit her mum. We're driving to UK tomorrow. Dh has 3rd interview in Milan today. Is there still a fagot meetup? Or has it already been. Last few weeks all messed up. So our relationship issues seem to be greatly improving, but hard to say, as everything on hold and in limbo with poor mil struglle.

Mls you've been so brilliant you don't deserve any of this shit, none of you do. Anyway, I'm in Uk from tomorrow for 2 weeks. Take care all of you xxx

UsedToBeMLS · 20/07/2007 09:01

ernest so sorry to hear situation
you're all coping amazingly well

Dior I have asked MN HQ to delete all my posts and also if they can tell me if harmony is a new poster or a name changer - I will see what they say

I guess I can't go into it now but I had the night from hell with H last night too. More lies and a comment that crushed me beyond belief.

Maybe if we set up a new MSN group we can talk better on that. I am going to e-mail PC today. If it's a troll that's on the MSN group then I am shocked and saddened at the complete lack of compassion. Everyone on there knows what I've been through
Sadly I think it must be her. (If it was a troll, surely knowing she is 19 they would put harmony1988. But she was born in 87. Nobody would have known that.)

sugar34plum · 20/07/2007 13:36

dont even know what to say so angry and shocked for mls.

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 18:06

Can't believe it is someone on the MSN group why now and to what end we are all in same boat
Mumsnet is so widespread someone who knows her and read your postings would know it was you but biy she must be some pice of work what a demented little bitch she deserves your H then they can make each other miserable and you can get on with your wonderful new life
I will be around on MSN tonight DD with (D)H so lucky me night in feet up

lovemybed · 20/07/2007 18:37

have seen what was written and just wanted to say that i have deleted my story on msn just incase its not as secure as i first thought, i know i did not have as much personnal stuff written as everyone else but there was still names etc. plus there has been so many new people/name changes that i did not manage to keep up with it all.

also things have taken a bit of a u turn in my life just now and what was written is not really true at the moment. hope things start looking up for everyone soon.

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 18:40

Crap cannot believe one immature vindictive little slapper can cause so many problems and interfere with a really useful support system
Well I will continue to post don't give 2 hoots if OW or anyone knows her reads it and realises it is me - I have said most to her face and would like her friends and family to know she is not the inocent little victim she makes out
I would prefer not to be identified in RL mainly because of my job bu bollocks anyway...
MLS you really didn't deserve that post whether it was her or a troll

ernest · 20/07/2007 18:54

i looked at msn group but couldn't see anything. Sorry someone is being so nasty to you - you def don't deserve

Paddlechick666 · 20/07/2007 19:52

with regard to the MSN group, I only approved people who told me their MN nickname and that we knew.

There were a couple of applicants who I denied access. One as they never confirmed their MN name and the other who we all felt we didn't know sufficiently well.

My proposal to MLS was to actually delete the MSN group which would remove everything. Posts & pictures etc.

I can then set up another MSN group which I would not name here on MN. You should all have my email address and I would ask you to email me for the group link where you could apply to join.

I am more than happy to do this if everyone is okay with that.

My only advice would be to try and keep your MSN nickname as close as possible to your MN nickname just for clarity.

In all honesty, I don't think this has come from the MSN group and if it has, it is from someone we have trusted and therefore would be inclined to trust again.

Not really sure how to proceed......

Dumbledior · 20/07/2007 20:00

I honestly don't think it can be someone from here. I hope MNHQ can clear it up for MLS.

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 20:03

I can't believe its one of us Best we have that meet up and all meet face to face

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 20:06

And feeling a bit panicked at thought of losing my online support system - anyone on messenger tonight ??

lovemybed · 20/07/2007 20:43

sorry i did not mean to panic anyone about the msn group, i suppose it was just easier for me to delete my post as i only really "knew" the first few names that joined.

i have to say that i first came across mumsnet when someone e mailed my e bay account to say that someone was slagging me of on here (unpaying bidder) and trying to get people to bid on my items then not pay, making out that i was in the wrong. perhaps something similar has happened here and someone who knows "you know who" has tipped her of.

sallysparrow · 20/07/2007 20:51

This is awful!Apart from the toast business, I thought we were pretty much ok on here. I only name changed cos I found out P was going on Mumsnet, and he knew my old name. But He wouldnt know about Harmony.

Pretty patheic if it is her.

Still thinking of you MLS. Sorry we cant support you directly when youre having a bad time.

Im on MSN under my email if thats any help.

lovemybed · 20/07/2007 20:55

what happened with toast?????

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 21:04

What happened with toast???

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 21:05

Bugger SS trying to put MSN lot on messenger and can't figure out your old name clue???

sallysparrow · 20/07/2007 21:26

Toast was the troll who said we were pathetic as we couldnt keep our men.

I reprted her to MN Towers and she got deleted. I wondered if she was back?

(fubsy btw)

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 21:29

ok ta got it

sugar34plum · 20/07/2007 22:19

sorry ladies but imo it is someone off the man group. thatsth eonly way they would know trogs name. I havent been on there for sometime as my com switches off if i try! so dont know what latest is on that one.

Im disgusted at the little witch she caused mls more thn enough pain. She might not known he was married at time but sure as hell does now.

i am slighty titspy heard h voice on ansamachine say will send money fro kids.wierd hearing his voice for firstr time in 4 weeks

Dumbledior · 20/07/2007 22:21

Sugar - I really find that hard to believe. Sorry, but I am in contact with most of the girls on the F&G group and cannot believe it.

macdoodle · 20/07/2007 22:24

Sugar I was last one on MSN group end of May its def not me and can't believe it of any others I think it is her and not so unlikely internet small world - had RL friend/acquaintence ask me if I was macdoodle the other day - was bit shocked TBH bit guess my story is pretty distinctive

lovemybed · 20/07/2007 22:32

i dont know about everyone else but i just kept my e mail invitation from the group in my deleted items and i click on it when i go into the group so i did not need a password etc, i am the only person who uses my computer so i think that doing this is safe.

im not accusing anyone about anything but is there maybe some chance that someone else has done this on a work comp etc and someone has managed to access the group. i know it sounds really far fetched but if is really not the person we think it is then it must be someone who either joined the group or has managed to access it.

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