GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

[Ifonlyhewould]

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

after reading macdoodles last post though i have to say that i have seen a few people on here the last little while saying people they know in rl had come accross them on mn.

I've deleted the MSN Group.

You should only have been able to access the group without a password if you were already signed into your MSN passport. I thnk.

I still don't think it was anyone from the group.

However, in light of the very personal details that we've all posted and now that some doubt has been cast I think it's best to just remove the whole thing.

Sugar, it's weird hearing their voice after so long eh? Glad you have heard something and I hope he does send you some money.

was just voicing my opinion. how ever she found out its disusting that she made her presence known.

i wouldnt have got through last few months without mn. and right now my life is as bad as it can possibly get. i dont care if anyone in rl reads my story but i feel for those who do.

Struggling struggling stuggling today - (D)H trying my head in bits can't do this at all - wish OW would drop off end of earth and take her baby with her

PC I think you've done the right thing in deleting it - best to have a fresh start all round. I promise I will get round to e-mailing you.

I am just not up to coming on here at the moment, have had a quick lurk this morning but just can't face things.

I will name change and get in touch with you all this week. Just need to sort my head out!

You're all amazing. Thanks for everything. Macd and sugar am thinking of you both every day, I know how hard it is for you right now

xx

btw quick update on the deletion, I have been in touch with MN towers and I was tempted not to get everything deleted in the end, as there is nothing on here that I wouldn't say to H's face and every single word of it is the truth.

Am fully aware this is a public forum and have always thought that writing it down here not only helps me to deal with it all, but my story may also help other people. So if someone does recognise me in RL, then that is fine - it's the truth about what happened. And it will save me having to tell them face to face one day!

If she wants to come on here and take the piss then so be it.

I know I am not in the wrong here.

So I am still undecided

if it is her then it just shows everyone what a complete bloody idiot she is really doesnt it?

Yes. But I think we all knew that

I've met her twice and was nothing but nice to her (my own stupidity!).
Even supported her when she took an overdose and have messages from her saying I am the most amazing person she has ever met and she is so sorry for hurting me
But she continues to try

she's just a dickhead, and obviously threatened by you

she is a child throwing a tantrum because things didnt go her way. mls youu have so much dignity that you completely out shine her.

My neighbour used this line about h and his worth " he is the worth the paper you wipe your bum on"! I thinkk we can include her in that

As for h he left voicemail saying he was sending money. Still not recieved but did only post saturday just waiting now. Very anxious as to what will be in the letter that acompanies it as i know there will be a letter.

Had court papers through. Got to go to court 28th august they are looking at repossesion even though already told them house is going on the market this week.

OSJ - I'm in the same boat as you. H recognises that I don't have feelings towards him and keeps playing the guilt card on me to make me toe the line. We are limping along towards the end.

Hi have only just got the gist of what is going on I have never been on MSN still not that great with computer but some of you have my email and i am happy for anyone to CAT me or ask me to cat them and i will.

I will get my son to set up MSN for me but that still could take a while.

This is such a shame as this is such a support for people who really need it at their lowest - it really helped me throuhg my toughest times.

osj are you ok? will email you

hurtwife I have e-mailed you too xx

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Where is everyone?

Are you all ok?

I keep switching msn off as it seems to make everything else crash. Did one of you try to get me on their msn list, as I had an invite but I think i lost it when i tried to reply! Sorry.

PC, was that you i saw on the MN Facebook group? Is it worth us having our own group now that the fagot group has gone.

Hello strangers
I not been around recently but just popped in to say hi to everyone and have half got the gist of what's happened, MLS i'm so for you why can't she just leave it be?
Haven't got a hope of catching up so hope everyone hanging on in there xx

Very quick update for you guys (this is my new name btw! but not going to bother deleting the old stuff anyway)

turns out H is still seeing her and still sleeping with her!

She slipped up this weekend and I found out - again!

I said I am reducing his access to ds as I do not want the baby anywhere near her - she is a psycho!

He then told her he can't see her anymore because he can't risk losing his access (and can't risk losing my co-operation)

In true nutter style she then turned up at his house - while me and ds were there, and threatened to kill me! (like I'm in the wrong here! ) Was parading round in this tiny skirt, false tan, looking like a complete and utter slapper.
She broke down in tears saying she won't apologise for loving him and she's not in the wrong here .... pathetic, pathetic, pathetic.
I have no idea what he sees in her

Then apparently she turned up at his a 3am this morning, went completely mental, kicked his car windscreen in.... he tried to take her home and she tried to get out the car while it was moving... the list goes on...

But basically, she has now confirmed exactly why I do not want my baby anywhere near her.
And I could never trust another word he says. He swore this time (for the 3rd time) that he really wasn't seeing her anymore. He swore on the baby's life! But the shit bag just got better at hiding his tracks

Anyway... he still wants to be separated. He doesn't want me. But does want the baby full time! wtf!
I think this is going to end up in court

I can't believe I still love him. Which I do. I do not understand why I can't let go. I just have to look at what he's done to know I could never trust him again and should hate him. So why do I want him back? Because I'm an arse that's why.

This isn't my life. This is something off jeremy kyle or a soap opera. What happened

MLS xx

MLS, what to say? You're really living a nightmare aren't you. Sorry nothing useful to add but couldn't not post.

Keep strong things will surely get better soon. Also, don't beat yourself up for still loving the creep (sorry, I know you're not into name calling but sometimes it feels necessary). You can't help your feelings. Being a generous, forgiving, loving person is not a bad thing to be you know.

Thank you xx

And what's all this c**p about him wanting DS fulltime?!! Dream on.

Said he doesn't want to be a husband (said doesn't want any sort of relationship... even though he has had the two of us strung along since last October! )

But... he does want to be a full time dad.

Dream on indeed!

The day last week when he swore on the baby's life that he wasn't seeing her, was the day it sealed it for me that even his own son cannot come before his lies

Full time dad ?

That wont leave much time for affairs, will it. [cynical emoticon]

Sorry this has happened. Just when you think its safe - something worse gets heaped on to your plate.

He really wants to have his cake and eat it, doesnt he? She does sound like a right bunny boiler tho - can quite understand why you dont want DS around her.

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