GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

[Ifonlyhewould]

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

i don't know where he is - as effin usual.

he wants to re-schedule to tomorrow. it's all in his stupid fucked up head this illness. whenever he has to do something he feels nervous about.

christ i could cry at my desk.

if i text something stroppy back he'll just go to ground.

i feel utterly powerless and out of control.

yet a-fucking-gain.

I think he needs one of cnc's arse kickings!

I wish I could say something useful to help.

I think as a bare minimum tomorrow you should insist you need to know where the hell he's living in case you or dd ever need him and you're unable to contact him by phone

He's exactly the same as my H with the 'illness' - excuses excuses excuses!
Weak and selfish

he won't even pick up his phone.

spineless tosser.

i just flamed him by text after he sent me one saying "just leave me alone".

i just need his bloody signature ffs. how bloody hard is that.

i can't bloody do this anymore

good for you. about time you told him what a tosser he's being.

I'm not surprised you feel like that. Do you think he would stop the money if you file for divorce? Sounds like he's pushing you to do that anyway so he doesn't have to make the decision himself.

Was your advice to get the money agreed in writing before mentioning divorce?

Paddle can you post what you need signed to his mum and get her to sort it. With a note saying that if he is determined to act like a hicld and not a father that you will treat him as such and get his mummy to do the responsible things...

Sorry, it's really shitty.

hicld? child, of course...

my mum is looking up the name of her solicitor - she came recommended and encouraged mediation. I remember her being very "gentle" and she works from home in Kew. (when/if the time comes of course)

QC, I could except I don't actually think he's there very often and also I want to look the *(^% in the eye and tell him what I think of him.

Thanks for the lawyer info but the general feeling at the moment is to sit tight until end October and until I've moved and am not so dependant on the funds he gives me - which are quite generous.

I knew that you weren;t considerion legal just now - just wanted you to know that I could get you detials at a later date. I unedrstand your need top look him in the eye... sadly I suspect he's not very good at giving you want you need at the moment and it may be a long wait...

thanks QC.

i might just go to his office and cause a scene!

just for the satisfaction?

Would you like me to come and hold your coat?

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sorry dior, missed you.

cnc, i've emailed you.

sent a text first thing saying to re-schedule yesterdays meeting for today as per his original text.

funilly enough, haven't heard anything back so far......

I really hope he meets you today pc

I hope you're ok xx

i very much doubt he will tbh baffy.

i'm okay, just tired out....

fingers crossed he does the right thinhg today PC

no meeting, he's not even in work so i can't go there and cause a scene even.

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dior i think the problem is that he's not on anything.

texted back saying "i said leave me alone and that's what i meant"

it's classic major crash stuff for him. been there, done that, got the t shirt.

texted back "why so you can forget all about me and dd? like that's going to happen!"

am surprisingly un-upset about it today....

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pc look how angry we all are and we're not even closely involved in the situation

you must be livid! I think you're an absolute saint. I just hope for your sake that you can get a conclusion to this one way or another soon

xx

by the way this thread is about to run out isn't it? do we need a new one?

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