Follow on from my AIBU thread 'to be sad about DP spending Christmas at his exes'

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Had to start a new thread here. I posted in aibu in December as I was 36 weeks pregnant and my partner was spending Xmas at his exes.

I suspected foul play and finally found out today that they slept together on Christmas day, she's now pregnant. He's been lying to us both for months and when I went to speak to his ex in person he's done a runner saying nobody will ever see him again and turned his phone off. He's also fucked me over in not paying the rent.

Currently cradling my 2 week old son wondering wtf I'm going to do.

Just want to wish you all the best and to let let you know if you ever want/need to chat do message me. You are doing an amazing job with your DS

OP, when my baby was 5 weeks old, my partner - her Daddy decided, whilst I was in hospital, to sod off to work and leave her in the house alone. For hours & hours. Sat in a car seat. Wanting feeding, dehydrated, distressed.
Luckily I found her before she choked on vomit or her chin slipped down on to her chest and suffocated her..... I called Police. He got arrested. Can never be unsupervised with a child ever again.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE call Police. What he did was assault

Oh mother that's awful.

All the best Tumble. Have a wonderful life.

All the best from me and the LB's. You are doing a great job as a mum, keep on keeping on.