Dp moody cos I can't have sex for 6 weeks

[Rizzo03]

I've just had treatment for cervical cancer so I can't have sex for 6 weeks, he knew this right from the start, we are now in week 2 and he's moody, tense and there's an atmosphere. There's also a lot of other things going on, my dad has just died and his ex is causing trouble his dd wants to live with her mum, all adding to the pressure. I just feel really down with it all and I needed somewhere to moan

Yeah, I think you need to break his kneecap then tell him to run a marathon. Maybe then he'd have a bit of empathy. Wanker!!!

Time to sit down (on your own) and make your 'exit plan'.

Sorry for the DM link, but you might want to mention this story to your DH, in case he's not old enough to remember it.

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Rizzo I asked my dh what he thought about your DH attitude.
He looked at me horrified and just said 'what?!? After surgery for cancer, having sex is more important to him than her recovery and her health?!?'

You are right. Being single will help cool his red blooded male attitude.

A relationship is about support and being a team. There's more to a relationship than just sex.

What are you going to do Rizzo?

Snack his willy a few hundred times and then demand sex!! What a selfish sod he is!
Good luck xx

Why dont you develope a sudden fetish op? I'm thinking that one where you shit in someone's mouth, and being the red blooded woman you are he has to let you do this to him. Once you have taken a big steaming, stinking shit right in his mouth, dump him.

What an unpleasant human being.

I can 'try' having sex again in around 10 days (my consultant encouraged us to try before I go back and see him in 2 weeks, In case we have any issues)

I sort of suggested last night that for the sake of another week why didn't we 'have a go' this weekend. DH was absolutely adamant that we have to wait and that he wouldn't be participating!

Oh and this is from someone with a very high sex drive and we normally DTD at least 5 times in a week.

Well guess were I am, I'm over in Barcelona, I managed to get a flight at the last minute staying with a friend 😀. No kids so I thought why not, the weather is lush and I'm just relaxing planning my future. Dp not happy but I said I needed the break!

Fantastic! Bloody well done!

Oh, WOW! That's great! We're due three great storms this weekend and it's windy as heck so soak up some of that sun for me!

rizzo you are my heroine! Your last post was epic, fucking good for you doll.

Think time away is just what you need. Good on you, Rizzo

Good on you, now to get a permanent break from him, you go Rizzo, you deserve it. Your partner is a sexual deviant.

Good for you Rizzo!

What a selfish prick.

A real man (like some of the others here have) cares more for his DP and her health and well being than their urge to get their rocks off without care that it may harm or hurt her!

We'll dp can keep himself busy by packing up his shit and being gone by the time you get back...

Cheering you on from the sidelines Rizzo I bet his face was a picture when you told him you were off

Have a brilliant time.

Regardless of the sex pest stuff, if you don't have kids, he should be pleased for you getting a break away!

Sorry did I just read that right?!?!

You have just lost a parent and you have cancer and are having treatment... And he's making a drama over sex?! What a total CUNT he is. You need support and are grieving. I can't quite believe what an arse he is. Hugs.

Just seen about the holiday, brilliant well done! You deserve it. Let him stew.

Well I have rested, sat by the harbour ate tapas had the odd mojito, my friend and her dp have been very kind. I do have to go back tomorrow as I have my dcs back. Dp has been texting me non stop I switched my phone off for a while. I'm not really sure how I'm going to deal with him when I get back we going out for dinner to make a plan of action. What a lovey break I've had and I've stopped bleeding so things are healing !

I hope you're feeling strong enough to tell him things are over :)

(srsly. He tried to coerce you into sex you didn't want. There's a word for that. Please don't allow him to wriggle out of it. Maybe even tell him he could do you a favour by vacating the property before you get home?)

You need to tell him, you cannot get back from this, he's an animal!

Glad you are getting a much needed break from the test. Shame it has to come to an end, but hopefully it has given you the strength you need now.

He needs to leave the house really, so that you and your children can live there in peace.

It is good that you have stopped bleeding so seem to be healing now. I hope that continues smoothly.

I would say though, for god's sake don't tell him you are no longer bleeding. He might pressure you even more then. Tell him nothing.

Barcelona sounds like bliss, I can just picture sitting by the harbour and the bars

I hope things go right for you when you get back home.