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What a prick! Pissed offwith me because I've got my period.

909 replies

FindingSmeagol · 21/08/2016 15:12

I've been away from Dp for a week with dd 2. It was only meant to be a couple of nights but she ended up in hospital for one night with an infection (absolutely fine now) so I went from there to my family as I knew he'd be working and I wanted some support. First morning home and he notices San pro in the bathroom and says 'oh ffs your kidding?!' Um no these things happen monthly and no I've no control over it Hmm. I said 'you are Joking right? He's not. He feels cheated out of another few days of sex because he knows I'm not up for it in the first few days. Not really an AIBU. Just a 'what a cockwoble' klaxon type rant. Agh and breathe.

OP posts:
BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 21/08/2016 15:14

Tell him that you only have your period for 5 days a month
He's a twat every day of the month

Amelie10 · 21/08/2016 15:15

He's a catch isn't he.

AyeAmarok · 21/08/2016 15:16

Well, he sounds like a catch Confused

RockyBird · 21/08/2016 15:16

Yep, cockwomble.

NeedACleverNN · 21/08/2016 15:16

Why is sex such a big fucking deal with men?!

I haven't had sex since New Year's Eve. My sex drive has just dissapeared.

My dh is fully supportive and is waiting for me to come back to him

molyholy · 21/08/2016 15:17

What a charmer.

miserablesod · 21/08/2016 15:18

I'd be pretending i was on a never ending period just to annoy him even more.

GreatFuckability · 21/08/2016 15:19

he'd be getting no sex for far longer than a period lasts if he was my DP. in fact i'd be disinclined to ever sleep with him again.

Careforadrink · 21/08/2016 15:22

Yanbu

I'd tell him until he can be a bit more respectful he will be waiting a good deal longer than a few days.

JenniferYellowHat1980 · 21/08/2016 15:25

Ugh. Creep.

ShutTheFuckUpBarbara · 21/08/2016 15:25

LTB

JenLindley · 21/08/2016 15:27

Right so he assumes he'd be getting it if you weren't on your period? Hmm

humblesims · 21/08/2016 15:27

I think if you have your period you are legally allowed to punch his lights out. LTB.

candybar007 · 21/08/2016 15:28

A wise person once said Expect nothing and you wont be disappointed.

Print it out and show it to your prick of a Dp.

Stevefromstevenage · 21/08/2016 15:29

I had a coil fitted for years and then after getting it out and getting pregnant and BF halted my periods for 17 months, my DH got a little snotty that periods were happening each and every month and inconveniencing his sex life Hmm, I tore him a new one for that. Not one of his finer husband moments, the selfish arse.

3littlefrogs · 21/08/2016 15:29

He sounds delightful. Hmm

DoinItFine · 21/08/2016 15:29

Poor him, his vagina is back but out of action.

Where is he meant to stick his penis now?

Just5minswithDacre · 21/08/2016 15:30

I seriously would consider LingTB for that because it's indicative of an idiot man child.

What's he like otherwise?

Lilacpink40 · 21/08/2016 15:31

As Jen pointed out, if you don't have a period would he automatically get sex?

This leads to the bigger picture, is sex something you do for equal fun, or are you expected to regularly serve him?

TheSilverChair · 21/08/2016 15:32

What a charmer.

CrepeDeChineWag · 21/08/2016 15:32

He's a charmer Hmm

CrepeDeChineWag · 21/08/2016 15:32

Ha! Grin

Costacoffeeplease · 21/08/2016 15:32

What a prize he is - prize twat

JudyCoolibar · 21/08/2016 15:32

Tell him to get over it and that every whinge from now on will earn him another fortnight's celibacy.

flanjabelle · 21/08/2016 15:32

You understand now that you are nothing but a vessel for his sperm right? As you are unable to perform the services he expects he has every right to be pissed off in his mind. You aren't worth more than that to him.

Op this is vile.