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What a prick! Pissed offwith me because I've got my period.

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FindingSmeagol · 21/08/2016 15:12

I've been away from Dp for a week with dd 2. It was only meant to be a couple of nights but she ended up in hospital for one night with an infection (absolutely fine now) so I went from there to my family as I knew he'd be working and I wanted some support. First morning home and he notices San pro in the bathroom and says 'oh ffs your kidding?!' Um no these things happen monthly and no I've no control over it Hmm. I said 'you are Joking right? He's not. He feels cheated out of another few days of sex because he knows I'm not up for it in the first few days. Not really an AIBU. Just a 'what a cockwoble' klaxon type rant. Agh and breathe.

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Trifleorbust · 21/08/2016 15:33

That is pretty grotty. Tell him yes, you were joking 😂 Then when he has sex with you, tell him you are joking now instead.

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PinkyofPie · 21/08/2016 15:36

How long have you been together?

Run a mile. Any bloke who thinks that sticking their cock in a walking vagina woman is so important that a sick child and a natural bodily function is something to be aggrieved by when said cock doesn't gets its way, is a nasty little cunt of a man

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liz70 · 21/08/2016 15:37

I'd be having imaginary fifteen day long periods every fortnight from now on if I were the OP. Hmm

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FellOutOfBed2wice · 21/08/2016 15:38

Who are these men and how did they ever end up married/with partners?!

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BlackSwan · 21/08/2016 15:39

Just so you know you aren't alone OP, my husband, whose an utter prize bastard most of the time, claims I have my period all the time. If he doesn't think I'm being cheerful enough he starts up 'here you go... you're getting your period aren't you? Oh God'. I'm sick to death of him for this and other reasons.

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fanniboz · 21/08/2016 15:39

What a nasty prick

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EnidButton · 21/08/2016 15:39

What Flanja said exactly.

Ugh. How horrible. I couldn't be with a man like that.

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PuppyMonkey · 21/08/2016 15:39

I'd have just replied: "Yes DD is fine after her hospital visit, thanks for asking about her."

Knob.

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Shakey15000 · 21/08/2016 15:40

Urgh. Vile excuse of a man. I just can't imagine being with someone like that.

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FindingSmeagol · 21/08/2016 15:40

This is fucking grotty and vile isn't it?
Drip feed alert actually just feel like I'm telling in him I called to tell him when dd had been given her discharge from hospital and he was pissed off on the phone to me that I wasn't hot footing it right back home (he was working every day) and choosing to spend some time with my Dm instead and getting some company and support. Not sex related but shitty behaviour of someone who's just been told their dd is leaving hospital. Ooh I'm on an angry rant now.

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Lilacpink40 · 21/08/2016 15:41

Why should sex be something a man 'has' and a woman gives though?

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DoinItFine · 21/08/2016 15:42

Why do you think his reason for wanting you home wasn't sex related?

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Lilacpink40 · 21/08/2016 15:43

Is he a 'taker' on everything then?
Your time and your body are his?

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CrepeDeChineWag · 21/08/2016 15:44

So do you get this attitude from him every month?

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JellyBelli · 21/08/2016 15:45

Make him an Entitled Award. I suggest a fleshlight on a plinth, labelled 'for those difficult days'.

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Arkhamasylum · 21/08/2016 15:47

Aw. Was Mr. Winkie disappointed? Poor Mr. Winkie.

Total and utter man-child.

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NoCapes · 21/08/2016 15:49

So do you have sex every day when you're not on your period?

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CafeCremeMerci · 21/08/2016 15:50

He sounds dead charming.

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FindingSmeagol · 21/08/2016 15:50

Yes he's like this every month but usually we know when I'm due on so he gets as much action as possible.
I was only meant to be away 2 nights and he really misses us when we're not with him so after dd was hospitalised he expected us to return home ASAP . I personally didn't fancy the 3 hour journey back after zero sleep on a children's ward.
He's suggesting bra would be a good solution to the issue Confused

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DoinItFine · 21/08/2016 15:51

It's a wonder you were able to keep yourself away for so long.

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FindingSmeagol · 21/08/2016 15:51

Yeah he is a fucking entitled man child and the last few days have made me lose a lot of respect for him.

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NoCapes · 21/08/2016 15:52

A bra???

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Just5minswithDacre · 21/08/2016 15:52

Eurgh. It doesn't sound much like having a partner.

I had a really lonely marriage first time round.

Does it feel like that? Lonely?

I think maybe the period nonsense is the least of it?

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PinkyofPie · 21/08/2016 15:53

he really misses us when we're not with him

Sorry OP but I think it's your vagina bein used as a spunk bucket that he misses.

Do you actually want to accumulate lots of sex before your period starts? Is he a good lover?

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Just5minswithDacre · 21/08/2016 15:53

A bra? What?

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