What a prick! Pissed offwith me because I've got my period.

[FindingSmeagol]

I've been away from Dp for a week with dd 2. It was only meant to be a couple of nights but she ended up in hospital for one night with an infection (absolutely fine now) so I went from there to my family as I knew he'd be working and I wanted some support. First morning home and he notices San pro in the bathroom and says 'oh ffs your kidding?!' Um no these things happen monthly and no I've no control over it . I said 'you are Joking right? He's not. He feels cheated out of another few days of sex because he knows I'm not up for it in the first few days. Not really an AIBU. Just a 'what a cockwoble' klaxon type rant. Agh and breathe.

A bra? What?

Well he must be shit hot in the sack if you put up with that shit every month. Is he?

How very tedious and utterly boring for you

How is a bra supposed to help?

It's a boob holder not a blood disappear-er

Do you want to have loads of sex in the lead up to your period? Or do you do it just to appease him?
You realise that this whole attitude is very very wrong? He believes he has sexual rights to your body.

I think a sock is in order rather than a bra OP

Nice to know that your presence is only required for sex. He sounds horrible

"He's suggesting bra would be a good solution to the issue"

Eh?

I'd suggest an appointment with Madame Palm and her five lovely daughters as the solution, myself.

Blow job!!! No idea where bra came from

This behaviour would be ringing every alarm bell there is for me.

You are a sex thing for him first and foremost. If there ever comes a day when for some reason you can't have constant sex with him - illness, menopause, any other thing - he will go looking elsewhere.

I was married to one of these pricks. You deserve much, much better.

I hope your DD is recovering well - it must have been a very difficult week for you being at the hospital with her. I'm sorry you had to come home to a load of shit from an idiot.

So he gets extra sex before your period to ensure he can cope with the dry spell?
(still not sure what the bra is for...)

tell him his entitlement his a massive turn off.

Tell him if he wants a blow job he better learn how to be a contortionist pretty quickly

so he gets as much action as possible

I don't know how you could bring yourself to have sex with him.

Gosh, it's fair enough to be "disappointed" (I am sometimes when I have Aunty Flow staying and we fancy some afternoon delight), but to vocalise it like that!!!! I think I might have cried at that, periods make me teary anyway.

So instead of you getting sympathy for at the very least bleeding (but also possible feeling tired, bloated and in pain) he gets a blow job? And extra sex before because he will literally DIE without a fuck for a few days.

OP what on earth makes him think he deserves a blow job?

Sorry to say you are just a vessel of orifices for pleasuring his Most Magnanimous Cock. Please say you haven't done it

No way would he be getting a BJ as a consolation prize.

You are not his sex servant

"Blow job!!! "

Words. Fail. Me.

Oh god ditch him OP.

He's a Neanderthal. I'm sure you deserve much better

I've said I will but no I will not .

He must make you feel like an object

FindingSmeagol - just to reiterate what other posters have said, do you actually enjoy having sex with him, or is it something you put up with in order to shut him up? I've never been in a relationship where I had sex for any reason other than that we both wanted to.

Is he a good lover? Sounds like he'd be pretty selfish in bed. Every interested in pleasuring you sans cock?

God why are some men so fucking awful

*ever not every

I always think there is nothing more unattractive than somebody that asks for sex/blow jobs.
Sex should be about enjoyment, passion and the moment taking you not somebody asking for it, Same with blow jobs

Ahhh!

Fair enough being a bit disppointed about no sex but ffs it's a few days, why can't he just go and have a wank and make do ffs