What a prick! Pissed offwith me because I've got my period.

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I've been away from Dp for a week with dd 2. It was only meant to be a couple of nights but she ended up in hospital for one night with an infection (absolutely fine now) so I went from there to my family as I knew he'd be working and I wanted some support. First morning home and he notices San pro in the bathroom and says 'oh ffs your kidding?!' Um no these things happen monthly and no I've no control over it . I said 'you are Joking right? He's not. He feels cheated out of another few days of sex because he knows I'm not up for it in the first few days. Not really an AIBU. Just a 'what a cockwoble' klaxon type rant. Agh and breathe.

Wow just wow. Do you have children with him?

Buy him a flesh light and tell him that its where his dick will be living, if he doesnt buck up his ideas, he'll be living somewhere else too.

Stroppy man, whining about sex. What a bloody turn off.

I think it's fine to ask for sex but whining about it is deeply off putting

'Thank god she 's alright' cuddles, maybe leading to some spontaneous tension-relieving mutually agreed shagging (but more likely knackered sleep!) would be the normal thing after having a DD released from hospital, I'd have thought.

Has he asked much after your DD?

OP do you enjoy sex with him?

There are no words!!!

Why on earth did you tell him you would give him oral then? Are you scared of him?

Tell him to do it himself, and any further moaning he'll be in a Sahara-level dry spell for the foreseeable, the wiener.

Surely he'd be too worried about your dd and letting him sleep before thinking about sex no?

Is he the most amazing lay ever cos that's abut the only think that might contribute to putting up with that crap?

It's worrying that you said you will! Are you scared to say no?

He sounds gross, and yes - entitled!

He's like this every month so you know about his vile ways, yet choose to have a child and stay with him. Wake up and realize that there's something wrong with this 'relationship'.

What is it with all these narcissists lately?

This thread has almost made me go cold.

It's not just the demanding nature of what he feels is his "right" it's the fact he monitors cycles so he can "get more" before and then actually sulks about the OP being on her period and then demands oral sex.

This is just utterly utterly vile on so many levels

Not suggesting it's a good idea but I would be so tempted to show him this thread.

What a prick. Has he not asked once about your poor dd?

I always think there is nothing more unattractive than somebody that asks for sex/blow jobs.
Sex should be about enjoyment, passion and the moment taking you not somebody asking for it, Same with blow jobs

This x100 ^^

You really need to reasses this relationship OP as its not how loving couples act together, it really isn't.

He sounds vile. When I had a coil fitted it really messed up my cycle and for 6 months I bled pretty much continuously. DH was nothing but supportive, caring and concerned. Our lack of sex life was the least of his worries.

Please don't show him this thread! I just get a feeling that would be a bad outcome for you OP.

Wtaf????

Solution to what issue? The issue that he is an absolutely selfish entitled animal?

This is absolutely disgusting behaviour.

Agree please don't show him this thread! I fear that would not end at all well for you OP.

Just wondering if he's a cocklodger - as well as using your body, is he using your home?

You'd be better off chucking him out and finding your self-esteem. You sound lovely and would be better off alone.

I'm confused. You told him you will give him a blow job but you're not actually going to. Why? After the appalling way he has behaved I'd imagine most women would have told him to fuck off to the far side of fuck and keep fucking off some more. Are you frightened of him or is it just to temporarily stop him pestering you?

You are basically a blow up doll to him aren't you.