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Dh's best mate still living with us (for free) !!

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frenchconnection · 23/01/2007 10:19

i posted on here a while ago about my dh's mate living with us, he sleeps up in our loft room and pays no rent. my dh was being a complete arse about me moaning about it at first, but now he wishes he never invited his mate here! his mate is lovely and plays with the kids a lot so i cant be horrible and ask him to leave, he has nowhere else to go (though doesnt seem to be looking) and says he is in so much debt that he cant afford normal rents..i plucked up the courage to ask for rent last week, and he said its fine, yet still no money!

i keep asking how the flat-hunting is going (hint hint) yet he just says "oh the rents in london are so high i cant find anything". We have 2 children and i f**king hate queueing up for MY bathroom every morning while he takes 30mins in the shower!!!!!!!!!!! And when i finally get in the bathroom, he'll be knocking at the door saying "are you going to be long??"
when i ask my dh to ask him how long he will be staying, dh just says "why dont i just tell him you want him to leave?" So that would make me look awful!AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAggggggggggggggghhh

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Saturn74 · 02/02/2007 10:31

It's great news that he's leaving.
I hope you all enjoy having your home back.

AttilaTheMeerkat · 02/02/2007 10:39

FC

This is good news indeed re the freeloader leaving.

And well done as well re the use of the super soaker.

Mumpbump · 02/02/2007 10:41

Hurray! Very relieved that he went, rather than you!

frenchconnection · 02/02/2007 11:45

(Just to make clear, i squirted straight up into the loft, not directly at him!)

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tribpot · 02/02/2007 11:46

Well done you, and congratulations on getting your house back!

tigermoth · 02/02/2007 20:08

congratulations and what a fabulous story this will make

1sue1 · 03/02/2007 09:49

brilliant lol.

Why not tell hubby that as this new 'weapon' of yours is such a good relationship tool, you will now have it firmly by your side to administer soakings as and when required in your house.

moondog · 03/02/2007 10:00

Oh good
I hope you can now work on salvaging your marriage!

frenchconnection · 03/02/2007 12:47

Moondog - see, i got myself a "fucking grip!"

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moondog · 03/02/2007 18:49

Well done kiddo.

wartywarthog · 05/02/2007 22:03

so did he move out today fc?

ernest · 16/02/2007 14:14

been following this thread from the start, and then went on holiday, wondering the whole time whether or not he's gone.

Just got back to read the you, f/c talking of moving out , then the super soaker, then....?????????

What happened since 3rd feb? A lot can happen in 2 weeks. Or not a lot. Are you OK?

frenchconnection · 16/02/2007 14:21

Oh, sorry, have been so happy i forgot to post on this thread...

HE'S GONE!! HE'S GONE!! HE'S GONE!!

though havent heard from him since..think he may be rather peed off but who cares!

thanks for all the advice folks

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LIZS · 16/02/2007 14:27

How has dh been since ?

ernest · 16/02/2007 14:38

I'm very pleased and relieved for you? And yes, how are things with dh?

JanH · 16/02/2007 14:39

That's brilliant, fc!

Blu · 16/02/2007 14:43

LOL! FC. Good for you!

Hope DH was suitabley impressed and will set his antennae to 'listen to FC at all times' mode now!

frenchconnection · 16/02/2007 16:45

Hmmm , me and dh not getting on at all but thats a whole other story...

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