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I'm livid!

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midlifehope · 19/03/2016 18:04

I wasn't in the room this morning, but 'd'p slapped Ds leg. Ds is 4. I am livid. Apparently ds kicked dp and threw a comic at him, but it would have been very light as ds is a good boy. Ds said ouch and started crying. I said to dp we were no longer spending the day with him. I am beyond fuming to the extent my heart is racing. I am vehemently against smacking as a discipline strategy. Is this the end for our relationship/ family? We've just bought our dream house together but are not getting on well atm.

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spiceynutsaddiction · 19/03/2016 20:39

I posted in really similar circumstances and was told to get my child away from that violent man. MN is as weird and unpleasant as it is fantastic at times.

Bogeyface · 19/03/2016 20:40

:o

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Waltermittythesequel · 19/03/2016 20:43

spicy your situation was the exact same?

whattodowiththepoo · 19/03/2016 20:44

Your DP was wrong, I pity him because of your attitude.

Cocolepew · 19/03/2016 20:45

#whataloadofshite

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Throwingshadeagain · 19/03/2016 20:48

#livesunderabridgetherearesomanyofthematthemoitsunreal

whattodowiththepoo · 19/03/2016 20:48

#thisisfantastic

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Bogeyface · 19/03/2016 20:49

#wavesfromnaughtystep

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midlifehope · 19/03/2016 20:49

Yes sorry for drip feed I only just remembered about dp goading ds before hand. Tbh I wonder if ds even kicked dp at all as he's not a kicker. I suspect it may even be an excuse. And no. I very much hate drama

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whattodowiththepoo · 19/03/2016 20:50

"Not so much to the few goaded"
More than a few.

midlifehope · 19/03/2016 20:51

Yes totally weird spicey. Perhaps all the smackers are online tonight?

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whattodowiththepoo · 19/03/2016 20:51

Oh dear god.
Get a grip and maybe some psychological help, stop making things up in your head and accusing people of abhorrent things.

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whattodowiththepoo · 19/03/2016 20:53

LTPB then he can try and discipline his son without smacking without your ridiculous attitude.

ExitPursuedByABear · 19/03/2016 20:53

Has she got form? #

OurBlanche · 19/03/2016 20:54

Oh!

Ah well, serves me right for posting later than I usually do! (Wanders off, annoyed at the emotional energy wasted, vows to remember MNHQs sensible message in future)

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midlifehope · 19/03/2016 20:55

Wowser some really vile people out there - you've got to pity them

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