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Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

175 replies

SurferJet · 28/10/2015 09:32

& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

OP posts:
CuttedUpPear · 28/10/2015 09:34

No.
I would know.

expatinscotland · 28/10/2015 09:34

No.

SurlyCue · 28/10/2015 09:36
Confused

You either agree to be faithful or you dont. You dont agree to be faithful except if DH wont find out.

Is hot sex really that much more valuable than your marriage and the respect you have for your partner?

PollyParrotsCrackers · 28/10/2015 09:37

No

Kim82 · 28/10/2015 09:40

No. I couldn't live with myself afterwards. I also have no desire to sleep with anybody else.

elQuintoConyo · 28/10/2015 09:41

No. I have morals. And I'd feel dirty and sick until the day I died.

If DH did this to me and I found out, it'd kill me. The other way round, too.

As an aside, we may be old farts and together for 17 years, but we still have hot steamy sex, thank you very much!

SocksRock · 28/10/2015 09:43

No.

As an aside, if I had a chance to spend a whole night in a bed with none of my family around, I'd be deep in blissful sleep, not screwing someone else.

fuzzywuzzy · 28/10/2015 09:44

No.

What's the point of being with DP if I value him (and myself) so little?

happystory · 28/10/2015 09:44

Absolutely not

Every1KnowsJeffTheJerkOlantern · 28/10/2015 09:44

God, no.

AtSea1979 · 28/10/2015 09:45

No

Esmeismyhero · 28/10/2015 09:47

No unless it was with a dreamy new species male (lauranndohner) and then they imprinted on me and I'd run away and have amazing sex forever and dh would be my best friend and understand because, you know, I needed the new species.

InvasionOfTheBodyShatners · 28/10/2015 09:47

No. It doesn't appeal at all.

SugarDiabetes · 28/10/2015 09:48

No.

Cheesybaps · 28/10/2015 09:48

Never, I couldn't live with myself.

Branleuse · 28/10/2015 09:48

no, we agreed to monogamy and it isnt difficult.

SugarDiabetes · 28/10/2015 09:48

Would you, OP?

LuluJakey1 · 28/10/2015 09:49

No but I would like one with DH. Our 10 month old has other ideas at the moment. Smile and we never get a whole night to ourselves when we are not tired.

SurferJet · 28/10/2015 09:49

Honest answer.

I don't know.

OP posts:
SueGeneris · 28/10/2015 09:50

No way. I don't get why anyone would do that.

It would destroy me if he did it to me and I wouldn't want to do it with anyone else. That's why I married him!

Houseofmirth66 · 28/10/2015 09:51

Yes. If there were an absolute guarantee that no-one would find out. And yes I know that I would know - but I reckon I could deal with it.

SueGeneris · 28/10/2015 09:51

LuLu snap!!

NoArmaniNoPunani · 28/10/2015 09:52

He'd be the one having it with me.

Joysmum · 28/10/2015 09:53

I can't see as how my DH wouldn't know as I'd have to wake him up to get it Grin

I had a number of partners before my DH and none have been better than him so no need to look elsewhere and I'm not a complete cunt

Twinklestein · 28/10/2015 09:53

I'd like it with my husband but no-one else.

Compared to my husband I don't find other men remotely attractive.