Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

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& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

No way. I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt. I feel guilty about fancying other men let alone doing anything about it!

A ONS is so rarely hot and steamy though. Since breaking up with my stbxh I've slept with 3 people and it's been cheap tbh. The best sex is always with someone who knows you and your body well IME.

It was stbxh saving grace, he was great in the sack. A complete cunt in every other way. I miss married sex ALOT! Don't do it peeps.

CRAP sex not cheap sex

No. I couldn't live with myself, and wouldn't disregard the commitment I have made to him and DCs.

No.
DH is the only sexual partner I have ever had, so I can't imagine wanting sex with someone else.....and I can't lie to my DH about stealing his chocolate out of the fridge let alone cheating on him and then attempting to lie about that.

No of course not.

It would be nice to have that spark and excitement of shagging someone new, but I would have to tell DH if it happened so it's a no.

For a million pounds I would, I would for half a mil to be completely honest.

Yes absolutely.

Argh! Missed a sentence! I wouldn't not do it just because of having to tell DH but I wouldn't want to shag someone else, even with the 'spark' (unless it was for big money as explained below).

No

I wouldn't, but do think about it. Partly I wouldn't because it would have to be a ons and no ons would match up to my filthy mind!

I would for £1million but only if DH agreed in advance...

The best sex is always with someone who knows you and your body well IME

Well said

God I miss hot one night stands. I've had some terrific ones in my time.

And what AgonyBeetle said.

I even miss the one night stands that weren't hot

Well, yes.

Some of us miss ONS, some miss married sex.

I think sex in the UK needs looking at. Everyone thinks they are missing out

No, if I lost my own morals I'd have nothing.

No from me too.

The thing I am most proud of in my life is mine and my dhs relationship. I couldn't deal with me betraying him even if he didn't know.

I do find other men attractive and did have the opportunity to spend the night with someone who I do find sexually attractive. I declined - initially there was a small part of me that thought 'what if...' But in the cold light of day I was so grateful that I didn't go there.

I'd do it for a million with Dhs agreement though, and hypothetically he'd go for it too.

I'd just rather have the steamy sex with my DP...

Yes

Hell no. Can''t be arse with all that all night stuff. Far too old and creaky. I prefer sleep.