Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

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& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

There are never 'no repercussions' so it is a pointless question.

When I was unhappily married, yes. I'm sure exDH would have said the same.

With BF no. I love being with him and have no interest in any other man.

It would depend on whom I was married to at the time:) I think if I was married to the man of my dreams then no.

And who it was, of course, this man that offered himself up for a night of passion.

No. I am the worlds worst liar for a start. I would feel too guilty and confess if I did, which I wouldn't. I can't even lie about the price of a pair of shoes and regularly confess to things my partner wouldn't have noticed. Like leaving his back window in the car open on a rainy day and getting the back seat wet. No one is ever in the back seat, apart from ds who is in a car seat on the other side.

Right now I'd give anything to have a night of sex with my DH, steamy or otherwise! We have a 5 month year old. Need I say more??

But no, I wouldn't do this to him.

oh, hell no.

No. Never. I respect my dp. Doesn't matter if they do or don't find out. Its not happening

Yes, very probably.

People are like cars...you may think you have something wild and exciting. But you don't really know unless you test drive that Ferrari.

Possibly. If it was with Daniel Craig
Otherwise no.

The thought of having sex with anyone other than my DH makes me want to vom in my mouth . . . even Denzel Washington

No, simply because I had absolutely no desire to.

Do people genuinely think sex with another person would be so repulsive? Oooh my partner is so amazing. He is so wonderful in bed. No one would be as good as him. What a load of horse shit. :)

If you don't want to because you would feel guilty, just say so.

I imagine the majority of posters are telling the truth, hustle. Why do you think they're lying?

No. I'd know. I did it when I was younger and whilst my then DP never found out I hated myself. I still kick myself over it, even though then DP turned out to be a twat. A quick - even without repercussions - fumble isn't worth screwing with my head over.

Helmet - the whole 'my man is so amazing' is a little forced. Yes you may love your husband but to think no other person on the planet is as good, if not better is just lying.

There are plenty of very attractive people in this world.

There are plenty of very attractive people in this world.

But I didn't choose them to be my husband. And I do think that no other person on this planet is as good as him and I'm not lying to myself or anyone, he's a really good bang in any case.

Awww that's sweet.

They might well be physically attractive, but I don't have the emotional connection with them that I have with my DH, which is (coupled with technique) what really makes sex mind blowing. It's also this emotional connection with him that would be the cause of my nausea if I was with anyone else!

Yes definitely - much as I love DP we have not had a sexual relationship for some time mainly due to his depression
I feel I'm too young to consider rest of my life without ever having sex again - which is how it feels at the moment

Yes.

Agree with pp, self selection for the no voters here.

Yes, I would. Feel let down in so many ways, he hasn't looked at me in five years. We are not married, the kids and mortgage bind us together. I feel like his mother.

Yep. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

If you'd asked me 5 years ago I would have said no. I was a trusting fool then.

No, definitely not!

No. I've only ever been with my DP, we've been together 7 years and even though I'm in my early twenties and have a lot of friends who have one night stands still I could never imagine hurting DP like that.

Plus, we have incredible sex anyway! I don't think it'd be the same with a stranger.