Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

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& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

No.
Because I would know.
Because I love my partner.
And because I wouldnt want that kind of dishonesty hanging over me.

No. If you want to fuck about with other people then don't be in a relationship FFS.

No I wouldn't want to.

No. I could only have that kind of sex with my DH. He's the same, I'm pretty certain.

Nope. Not really interested in sex. Can I have an earl grey, a gingerbread man and 9 hours in a darkened room? Nobody needs to know.

I'm faithful to my husband. This doesn't come with conditions attached.

What about 'would you have sex with another man for a million pounds?' That led to an interesting discussion with friends recently.

For a million pounds I think dh would ask that I took one for the team.
Robert Redford would be ok.

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For a million pounds I think dh would ask that I took one for the team

Yes. I'm sure dh would feel the same.

No, it doesn't make sense, of course there would be repercussions. Your whol relationship would be irrevocably altered, unilaterally, and apart from that it would be really bloody unfair.
Saying that, I don't have a DH anyway...

No. One of the best things about sex with dh, even after 'knowing each other' carnally for nearly thirty years, is the emotional aspect. It's not just about our genitals rubbing together, it's about 'us' connecting.
I don't think I'd get that in one night of down and dirty sex with a handsome stranger, no matter how explosive the orgasms.

The million £ thing is interesting. I'd not be comfortable with it because of my past and a million poinds doesn't mean enough to me for my DH not to remain faithful.

If it could be one of those things where it could happen and then time could be reversed and the whole thing could be erased as though it never happened, then yes! If you are just suggesting DP would never find out but I would have to live with the guilt of knowing if cheated, then no!

It's so ingrained in my subconscious that I can't even cheat in my sleep! The only person I have allowed to have sex with me in my dreams is DP, it really pisses me off lol.

We've actually had the million pound conversation (hypothetically) DH wouldn't go for it.

No, I like my dh too much to cheat on him.

I have found that the best sex is when you have a connection and know each others bodies. DH and I have been together for a long time. Had several experiences before we got together, the best is with DH. As BlossomCat said it is the emotional aspect.

A hot night with a stranger does not appeal to me. Been there done that, not all it is supposed to be.

Fantasy sex is all very well .
But reality is a whole different game .

Honestly no. even though my marriage is down the tubes - I couldn't. I think that the potential for hurt would be too great .... all for the sake of a shag.

OP what has prompted your question?

I don't have a partner so for the sake of sisterhood, send the hot steamy men my way...

No. I'd rather have a whole night of sleep. Sex is overrated.

Nah. I did that in my early twenties when I wasn't hurting anybody. No desire to have anyone but DH pressed up against me - and I can take or leave that most nights!

If I could sneak a night with the bed to myself... phwoar, now there is a fantasy!

Yes.

Even if there were no such thing as 'nor repercussions whatsoever' (which there isn't), two people would know and a third ought to.

Why do you ask, OP? Passion lacking? IME growing up helps to gain perspective.

No, nope, never. Even when he is a C£&T I couldn't

What prompted my question?

It's kind of a TAAT, the one asking if you had to have sex with someone who would it be? loads of enthusiastic replies so just made me wonder if people had the chance would they?

I would prefer dh to know about it, as it's with him I would have (and do regularly) have hot nights...