Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

[SurferJet]

& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

I had this opportunity once.

I was working away and got talking to a seriously hot American man in the hotel bar. I put my drink on my bill and he overheard my room number. After some mild flirting and good conversation I went to bed.

Half an hour later he was at my door. I didn't open it but man, I could have!

The thought did occur to me I admit.

Ha! This thread has really made me laugh... Other than those who say they would take the million....do you honestly think for one second that your male partner would not say "of fucking course " in a heartbeat? ... My old fashioned catholic mother used to say she believed in open marriage. I asked her why and she said sagely .....every woman is in one, at least then they would know!

The thing for me is that I would want the sexual tension involved in the early stages of an actual relationship. The glances. The sensing when the other is in the room. Hearing their voice above all others. The passing accidental touches building to a crescendo. You know, Bridges of Madison County stuff. ... you can't get that from a one off encounter so for me it wouldn't be tempting. I've always needed content around sex.

By the way surfer do you have the option?

I think it's highly unlikely someone would offer either me or dh, lovely tho he is, a million pounds for sex. I think We just don't mix in those er kind of circles

Never say never tho eh!

I already have hot steamy sex with my husband.
I don't want or need anyone else.

Only with Chris Hemsworth Thor. Though knowing my husband, he would want to join me and be annoyed if I didn't tell him and get the rest of the Avengers to join in.

Seriously though, no. I love my husband, I would never want to hurt him and I would know.

www.comicbookbrain.com/_imagery/2012-05-15/thor-chris-hemsworth.jpg

I haven't seen Thor. I'm still recovering from 'rush'.

Wow!

I wonder if dh would mind If I offered Chris hemsworth a couple of quid to shag me?

Oh Helmet you have to see Thor! And Thor 2! :)

Have you seen Avengers?

No. I have no interest in having sex with anyone else.

I might be odd, but after 10 years the idea of having sex with anyone else makes me feel a bit ill.

BTW I cheated in my first marriage.

Wasn't worth the guilt that I still feel today well over a decade later.

I ended up hating myself and I never want to hate myself again.

Sex with dh is wonderful because I love him. Nothing imo can compare to sex with someone you love deeply.

I have never been tempted to cheat on dh.

Lulu

"we'd both be upset and it wouldn't be worth it.......but..... we could spend some of the money on counselling..."

This made me

There are a lot of posts here about dear husbands and their 'trusting eyes' LOL. It would be interesting if there were a parallel thread for those husbands to post their responses. Bet they wouldn't be quite so pure and preachy.

This is a self-selecting thread. The nos are more likely to respond than the yes-es.

DW came out of Rush grinning. She used to marshal at Silverstone in the late 70s early 80s. If she actually was one of the 5000, it showed good taste on both sides.

No I wouldn't. It's not do with the 'no one finding out' aspect but the remorse and guilt I would feel about the betrayal. I love my DH dearly and I took my vows seriously and could not go against them, even if we were arguing or not getting along well, I still couldn't do it.

For most people this would be very easy to do in real life. I travel for work regularly. I could pick someone up in a bar, give a false name, have sex and know it would never get back to dh. People who are faithful are faithful because they want to be/choose to be. not because the zipless, anonymous fuck is not available - it is pretty much available to anyone who wants it.

People who are unfaithful and get caught generally are not doing one-offs (or if they are, they are doing it too close to home).

No. Nothing to do with morals, nothing to do with guilt. Just don't fancy anyone else as much as DH and he is great in bed.

Joking and a million pounds aside, that's another joke, just no. No one is worth our lives together and our children's lives. We worked so hard to build it all back up after our daughter died, to stay together. It's not worth it. It's just a piece of ass. Why would anyone risk all that for a shag?

I haven't seen avengers or Thor yet - it's not usually my thing- I think I will make an exception for Chris hemsworth tho

I urge everyone to watch rush for a hot steamy night with no repercussions at all!

I've had a few one night stands (when single) and let me tell you, they've never been hot and steamy. They've been awkward and not satisfying in the least.

On the other hand, sex with DH is wonderful, as there is an emotional connection and we are comfortable with each other.

So, NO. And I wouldn't cheat either.

I am guessing you are a bit bored with your DH.

I will bookmarking rush. Enjoy the very steamy Thor :)

You might keep the shag a secret from your dh, might be harder to explain the bout of chlamydia.

To the first question... yes probably.

To the £million question... definitely!

No because I'd know and id feel horrific! It's not worth it!