Please tell me I'm wrong to assume all men coerce and pressure women into sex, or worse

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Just that really. What happens in a healthy relationship if you aren't in the mood? Is that really the end of it?

OP,

Kindness and empathy is for reasonable people who are deserving of your trust.

The appropriate response to a person who abused your vulnerability is to not care how they are feeling or what they want.

If you want to stop being the girl of this abuser and others out there then get your head to this place and join the rest of us.