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Dh has been secretly recording me help

442 replies

Daisycloud66 · 06/10/2015 14:26

Shit, total shock here.
I've just been onto a hard drive my DH bought a while ago for us to share as last pc crashed and I lost all my spreadsheets I use for tax return,

I created a new folder for each of us and dragged all his stuff into his folder. He had loads of MP3 files and assumed it was music so I've opened one up to play as if it is current music I was going to delete it as its on iTunes. But the MP3 recordings weren't music they were recordings of me. The first one I opened was of Big Bang theory from last night and had me talking to my dog. The next one was the tv I was watching again last night.
WTF is he playing at, I just don't understand it. 22 mp3 recordings lasting about 5 mins each.

How is he doing this? Can anyone tell me if its the ps4 that's recording me?

He's gone to work so I can't have this out until late tonight.

OP posts:
Garrick · 11/10/2015 22:29

I really hope the weekend's been nice where you were, and that it's helped clear your head & focus your objectives :)

You are amazing, really!

Garrick · 11/10/2015 22:30

... how many times can I get 'really' into a really short post?? I really should watch what I'm really typing! Wink

Scarydinosaurs · 12/10/2015 06:24

I hope you were able to relax and clear your head this weekend.

diggerdigsdogs · 12/10/2015 07:06

Thinking of you op

WeLoveHaribo · 12/10/2015 07:48

I've been watching and reading this with shock, I've no advice as you've got lots of great people reply already. Hope you've had a fab wkd with DC and coming back to sort things goes well You're a brave strong lady Brew Cake xx

DeputyPecksBentBeak · 12/10/2015 20:47

Thinking of you. So glad you've phoned 101 and can 1) get some advice and 2) get it documented

Sorry that your family isn't very supportive.

lunar1 · 14/10/2015 11:41

Hope you are doing ok daisy.

BobbyV · 29/10/2015 13:08

Hey Daisy how are you doing? xx

azerty · 04/11/2015 18:23

Sorry this has happened, op. Good luck rethinking you future and do keep safe.

WombatStewForTea · 04/11/2015 21:15

Ive just read this from start to finish and honestly have no words! Op I hope things have settled down for you.

NotQuiteSoOnEdge · 05/11/2015 00:27

Daisy, really hope you're ok. How did it go with your police friend?

Pancake2015 · 05/11/2015 00:35

It sounds as though whatever it is may be sound activated. It also sounds as if there is one in every room. Test it. Go up into your bedroom with doors to downstairs closed. Make a couple of banging noises and cough etc. If it picks it up upstairs then he is probably recording you.

If you click right button on one of the mp3 files and look in properties, it may tell you where the original file location is coming from

Pancake2015 · 05/11/2015 00:36

Shit. I didnt notice all the pages. I just read the first page.

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 05/11/2015 01:16

Just read through all of this - how's things now Daisy? Flowers

Pancake2015 · 05/11/2015 01:21

Wow i have just read it all. I am so pleased you have called 101 and reported it. I also urge you to stay very safe and cautious on your trip. I know you would like to just relax, but he may go to the extreme of following you.
This takes me back to that hollyoaks episode with will recording his girlfriend. It is extremely creepy.
You have handled all of this amazingly well!
Please dont worry about the house. The main thing is you are safe! Men like this can turn in an instant. He is not the man you married. He has in a sense been leading a double life.

Stay strong and dont allow your family to make you feel guilty over this money. They might grasp the seriousness of all of this when the police are fully involved.
Dont back down now. Stay strong x

BusShelter · 05/11/2015 02:00

I have just read this thread and I'm completely shocked. What a strange, strange man he must be.

Fannycraddock79 · 28/12/2015 11:25

How are things now op? Did you sort the loan element out?

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