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HOBBITS BAR - still finding it hard to move on ......(part 3)

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greenberet · 15/02/2015 12:08

here we go ladies & drifting dogs welcome too of the harvey kind!

grab your drinks - Brew, Wine and izzietinis dependant on time of day & how we are feeling

Original thread

Part two

anyone welcome, new, old, lurkers we share with you all.
no requirements re posting as & when, one offs, rants, extreme rants, blubbing we dont mind, we've done it all .

we like songs, we like pics, we like humour, we like the words "twunts" and "fuckwittery" & we send each other Flowers often!

Our motto KOKO and our theme tune

join us Smile

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Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:06

Happy birthday, Drifting, how many candles on your cake?

Less than on ours, Hobbit Sad

bobs123 · 17/02/2015 20:08

Oh Izzie thanks so much...started me off all over again bur beautiful and so apt.

Crying and laughing at the same time reading these posts.

Yes green can relate to passive aggressive. At last mediation meeting he offered to make "voluntary" contributions. Can't wait to hear his excuse when "voluntary" contribution requested for costs of dearly departed dog - meds, bills re. attack from other dog in January and costs at end!

Hobbit you'll have to guess! - just think (very) well-known female royal...biggest clue - she's no longer with us Smile

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:09

Green

It's Tossers Day today. So for our special Thread event go beat some eggs and pretend they are his face and sing
? 3:31
www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WZNyxo1fgQ

strong123 · 17/02/2015 20:10

Green - are you sure you and me don't have the same exes? Mine also asked the kids to bring ingredients to make pancakes at his tonight which was a disaster - never mind - serves him right.

It is also his birthday and the only presents he got were from our DD and DS - his other DD only sent him a card and most of his family live aboard / the other side of the country. He has obviously had an argument with OW and is still not talking to her. I actually felt sorry for him for a second because he must have had a miserable day but that is his fault. It seems he is finally get a taste of his own medicine.

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:19

Queen mother. Princess Margaret ??

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:20

Diana!!,!,!!,!,!,!

I'm excited

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:23

Bobs that poem was sent to me by our vet.

Pancake mix....at the moment does anyone need any bricklaying done? But I had good fun bouncing round the room the the FUCK OFF song

It's DIANA isn't it??

WellWhoKnew · 17/02/2015 20:24

I am not contributing to convos involving famous people 'cos I'm an incorrigble snob innit. Grin

Sorry 'bout the dog Bobs so very sad. Hit the sherry by all means, but preferably drink it.

I am worried about becoming PA now I've read that...I baulked at this bit...

Hence they go through life stuffing their anger, being accommodating and then sticking it to you in an under-handed way.

I'm going through divorce stuffing my anger into a thread, being accommodating (and accommodated by his SM every month) and I hope the book makes a freaking fortune!

My Pen Name will have to be Mrs Politely Argumentative!

Had a bit of a laugh/cry with SHL today. We have another offer. It's worse than before. We've made a counter offer instead. Bit fed up of it all now. Did have a giggle about some of his more 'interesting' remarks especially when I reminded her that according to his testimony it's all SHL's fault he disposed of a huge chunk of money...

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:24

Ah shit. If it is, it's a close one as to who's the winner. Hobbit, you're already out!

greenberet · 17/02/2015 20:30

Strong - thats a bit too close to home - bday also this week

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WellWhoKnew · 17/02/2015 20:32

Queen Victoria?

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 20:32

Do I detect a bigamist??

greenberet · 17/02/2015 20:32

bobs - we have a dog too - left that behind too - chose somewhere that couldnt take dogs - i worked out kennel fees for last 6 months half his share - funny never got reply to that either

surely these SHL must see this day in day out - well your ahead of the game on this

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strong123 · 17/02/2015 20:53

Green - maybe they are twins separated at birth

bobs123 · 17/02/2015 21:00

Queen mother, Princess Margaret, QUEEN VICTORIA????? How old do you lot think I am???????????? Yeah it was Diana well done Izzie

I was lucky enough to have a pretty good upbringing. We're living where we are now because a kind friend had a rental that she let me have a dog in. In retrospect it was the right thing to do as he lasted a year more than he would have as the alternative would have been to have him put down. Now I'm stuck here until stbxtwatface gets his finger out and we can divide up the proceeds from the house we sold a year ago. Of course it doesn't matter that I paid for most of it Angry

Drifting belated Happy birthday

Yes, have hit the sherry, drunk it, finished it, would post a pic of empty bottle but haven't worked out how...yet! Hic Grin

WWK How can you get an offer that's worse than before??? Thought the idea was to work towards a middle ground...guess it depends who you's re working with Angry. Of course the court will be wise to all his excuses and have seen it all before. I also plan to be PA where he is concerned and vent elsewhere

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 21:07

Diana! Hmm it's a close one this......Diana v Mick Jagger & Kate Bush

Oh fuck, I think you've one

Still, you don't have a drink named after you, like moi wine]

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 21:08

Won!

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 21:19

Some interesting things come out today on the thread

Hobbit would be interested to hear what counsellor said about the forthcoming mediation

Our two newbies. Definitely hit the ground running I hate that expression by doing solicitors and house move so soon. Fantastic achievement, especially at such a time

WWK WTF, unbelievable. Or not really. Does he have dysclaculia??

drifting2015 · 17/02/2015 22:32

Hi. Hello to our two new friends . Glad to meet you , sorry in the wrong circumstances. Well how many candles ? Mmmm ... lets see I am nearer to 50 than I was last birthday when I was in the middle. There's a wee quiz for you all. Just like a pub quiz.

Didn't have pancakes today , too many tossers in the world already , mainly the ones we have been / are / soon not to be married to.

Lovely bright evening again . Dog walked , he flat out in front of fire. It was so nice I made an extra lap once I dropped the dog off to enjoy the sunset - it helped the fresh air and birds singing - Spring is around the corner so lets hope it helps us all , somehow.

Bobs thinking of you x

Hobbitwife001 · 17/02/2015 22:43

Wot's that Izzie? Two sets of genitals? Nah, that cant be right, he hasn't even got one set of balls, never mind two!

Hobbit is back! Wey Hey! How's you fine people?
The counsellor was really helpful, just told me how to put my best case forward, be calm and measured, I wrote it all down, will run it past my sol friend. Feel better today, had a bad few days, that's the way it goes this divorce malarkey I'm afraid.

Soz Izzie Princess Di surely has to win, unless someone was in school with the Queen, and I don't think any of us are THAT old.

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 22:54

Hi Hobbit I was getting all excited about the school thing and forgot she said she went to school with her. I said the queen mother haha.

What's this about genitals? struggling to remember

Glad you're on the up today. Xx

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 22:57

Do you fancy some of my pancake? It's that thick I could sleep on it Grin

iwashappy · 17/02/2015 23:03

Bobs I am so sorry about your dog. I don't know what else to say other than I really feel for you. Flowers

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 23:04

You mean about Mr Green's twin. They all sort of merge into one really. Except iwas ex. Old Sid/Parker is something else.

Izzie595 · 17/02/2015 23:05

Iwas, just thinking about you, and up you pop. Nice to have you visit