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New name, new game, less stress, more progress! (Thanks to Rottie!)

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thenamehaschanged · 19/10/2014 18:40

Here goes - thread 4 and definitely the last one now, sheesh!!

Who knew instigating divorce could be so bloody long winded!!

My last thread was 'It isn't Work Stress, it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H!'

Rottweiler solicitor (Rottie) and a non molestation order on Tuesday yippee!!

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Adarajames · 21/10/2014 01:07

Late night catching up, and keeping everything crossed for things going smoothly as possible tomorrow (well ok, today now, I'm up far too late again!) x

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AdoraBell · 21/10/2014 02:26

Thinking of you Name hope everything goes well tomorrow.

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Stuffofawesome · 21/10/2014 07:14

Inlectorecumbit I have images of you as a surgeon demanding MN after the scalpel and the nurse calmly obliging

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Alicebannedit · 21/10/2014 07:45

Hope all goes well for you today name and everything gets sorted swiftly.... your cause is somewhere tucked away inside me and my thoughts touch upon it often. Looking forward to your freedon! Flowers

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Dinnaeknowshitfromclay · 21/10/2014 07:48

Psheeeeesh psheeeesh psheeesh psheeeeeeeesh (pom poms)

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thenamehaschanged · 21/10/2014 07:50

Ahh thanks so much Inlector!! Grin Thanks everyone - so glad today is here, feeling good and then I receive a text from my Dad - have my mum and I fallen out? Last night she was apparently crying that she fears she'll never see her grandchildren again, please can I just give her a call, she feels frozen out and that we are at war??

I spoke to her on Friday. I said me and the kids and the hamsters will probably come down next weekend if all ok here - she knows I'm switching solicitors and there's been police involvement.

Honestly that woman!! And him - always in the background ready to just hoover up any joy I might be feeling with their 'me me me' shite.

Anyway - other than that all's good and I'll be back later with a full update Grin Thanks

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thenamehaschanged · 21/10/2014 07:51

Aw thanks Alice! Thanks

Haha Dinnae Grin Thanks

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Zazzles007 · 21/10/2014 08:05

Yep Name, the reality is that you are the one that needs support, but of course when your parents (in particular, your mother) feel that your attention is turning away from them, they will cry out "me, me, me, me, me!!!" Just at how juvenile this is. Ignore as best you can, and invest your mental and emotional energy in yourself. They will still be saying "What about me?" no matter what you do.

Hope today goes well, poms poms and Thanks to you, Name.

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pinkandstripey · 21/10/2014 08:13

All the luck in the world today name, will be thinking of you Thanks

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FantasticButtocks · 21/10/2014 08:14

Hope all goes according to plan today Flowers

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thenamehaschanged · 21/10/2014 08:15

Thanks Zazzles!! Thanks - Christ I turn to this thread rather than my own family haha!

Be back later!

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thenamehaschanged · 21/10/2014 08:29

Thanks Pink and FB! Thanks Grin

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PoirotsMoustache · 21/10/2014 08:34

Best of luck today! x

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PoirotsMoustache · 21/10/2014 08:34

Um, sorry about the kiss there! Blush Flowers

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FunkyBoldRibena · 21/10/2014 08:39

As long as it is on the cheek Poirot!

All 100% behind you Name. *dusts off trumpet

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thenamehaschanged · 21/10/2014 08:41

Cripes I've given X's all over these threads Poirot haha!! Thank you I appreciate all of the support no matter what form it comes in Grin

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PizzaMama · 21/10/2014 08:52

Thinking of you xx

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weebarra · 21/10/2014 08:55

Been lurking on your threads, name, and in awe of your strength and humour. Hope all goes well today

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gemdrop84 · 21/10/2014 09:03

Delurking to say I'm thinking of you too, hope it goes well today.

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Guiltypleasures001 · 21/10/2014 09:10

Breaking cover to wish you the very best for today Name ThanksThanks

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ninetynineonehundred · 21/10/2014 09:26

There are so many people thinking of you today name. Good luck x

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SouthernOne · 21/10/2014 09:45

Another lurker peeping out to wish you all the best

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TaurielTest · 21/10/2014 09:59

You are an amazing woman - sending you strength and wishing you all the best for today Flowers

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PoppyField · 21/10/2014 10:06

I'm on the edge of my seat. Go Name! I may have had too much coffee of course... x

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CarbeDiem · 21/10/2014 10:12

Good luck name X

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