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UrsulaBuffay · 23/08/2014 15:38

As we were saying...

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UrsulaBuffay · 24/08/2014 19:07

Also we see each other only about once a month on average, so no contact between times and not all that often makes it doable.

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jesy · 24/08/2014 20:52

It's over with Mr IT I'm devastated

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knittedknickers · 24/08/2014 20:55

Why is it over, Jesy, do you want to talk about it? REally sorry to hear you're upset x

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jesy · 24/08/2014 20:58

He got together with a girl from his exercise group

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 24/08/2014 21:03

Ahhh. Sad Keep posting here, Jesy

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 24/08/2014 21:04

Did he tell you this?

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jesy · 24/08/2014 21:04

I don't even have a friend to call

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 24/08/2014 21:06

You have us at least. You can PM me if you don't want to talk on here.

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jesy · 24/08/2014 21:06

I saw something on Twitter and he then said he had some thing to tell me and then I sed another girl and I git a yes I'm sorry

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 24/08/2014 21:07

What was the Twitter message? That seems awfully insensitive Angry

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UrsulaBuffay · 24/08/2014 21:10

You've got people here to talk to don't worry x

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Pinklaydee1302 · 24/08/2014 21:12

Oh no Jesy what a t**t hope you ok Angry

Height thing - I'm 5'6 and they just gotta be 5'10 + that's my deal breaker along with smoking.

Had a nice date with an older man I met on Badoo. Not really my type but just something there n think same for him....although he does smoke n doesn't have children Hmm

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jesy · 24/08/2014 21:13

It was something I read on Twitter he didn't know I saw his Twitter

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knittedknickers · 24/08/2014 21:15

Oh no, Jesy - that's horrible. It is so painful when that happens. Has he tried to talk to you about it face to face or don't you want to see him?

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BeforeAndAfter · 24/08/2014 21:16

Jesy I'm really sorry to hear that. Take care and cuddle pup.

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jesy · 24/08/2014 21:36

Pup with her nan I'm just crying in my room

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IMNOTYOURBABES · 24/08/2014 22:10

Jesy - hope you are ok.

I am going round in circles & can't get my act together.
I have a very short attention span & lose interest very quickly -arranged & cancelled 3 dates for this weekend.
Ho humm
They've been too full on, which makes me feel pressured.

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IMNOTYOURBABES · 24/08/2014 22:13

On a lighter note, I have been chatting on Tinder to a guy who said he thought I was 'inedible' Grin

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UrsulaBuffay · 24/08/2014 22:15

Don't cry Jesy xx

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Pinklaydee1302 · 24/08/2014 22:15

That's funny imnot Grin

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BeforeAndAfter · 24/08/2014 22:16

inedible Hmm

I'm guessing that's not a compliment but I've no idea! Did you understand it Imnot ?

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jesy · 24/08/2014 22:21

I've been better
I think I'm ok then I'll start to cry again I did say to him did u sleep with her before dumping me and he said no and tbh I believe him
They not even been on a date
Got pup with me now

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Pinklaydee1302 · 24/08/2014 22:40

Was it meant to say 'incredible'??? My phone always changes words for me...damn annoying

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knittedknickers · 24/08/2014 22:40

Well hold onto that, Jesy - he hasn't had sex with her whilst seeing you. It will probably take time to feel OK again but just try to take it easy and come and talk on the thread whenever you need to x

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lottieandmia · 24/08/2014 23:11

Jesy I'm sorry you're feeling so bad Hmm you will find the right person for you xxx I know that probably doesn't help.

Well my date went well today. The guy is a property developer. He's quite sensible, but he seemed interested in me. He did not stare at my boobs once and he did not keep going on about my looks. Nor did he lunge at me within 45 minutes. This was all very refreshing I have to say.

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