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Seamen in his boxer shorts?

188 replies

Mumtobenovember · 14/08/2014 22:12

I'm heavily pregnant and me and dp have been arguing and we haven't really been intimate he's being a dick basically- I just went into the bathroom and his boxers are on the floor he just took them off and had a shower after being at the gym and they have a white stain in about the size of a 50p is this normal? Do men get discharge?!! I don't want to kick off over a bit of knob discharge

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ClashCityRocker · 14/08/2014 22:43

Sorry OP - I didn't mean to be flippant, sounds like you're going through a tough time.

But it could be any number if things.

ATruthUniversallyAcknowledged · 14/08/2014 22:43

Ah, sorry. Just saw posts above. I thought you were concerned about a wank, but if it's a possible affair bothering you then I've stopped laughing completely.

Charley50 · 14/08/2014 22:44

Apologies as well but if it's in his pants at least you know where it is iyswim.
Seven - White stains show up on darker pants.

SevenZarkSeven · 14/08/2014 22:46

thanks for the info charley Grin

AlpacaYourThings · 14/08/2014 22:46

Grin @ seamen.

OP, why would this stain bother you?

Clarabum · 14/08/2014 22:56

I'm really sorry too. I got caught up in the hilarity.
skulks off feeling like a right cow

motleymop · 14/08/2014 22:58

These worries are a horrible horrible thing. I don't know the answer to the original question but hope you are OK. I am in that boat (again, sorry for the unintentional pun) all the bloody time (though I'm not pregnant) - so I join in with the apologies for flippant comments - hope you have laughed too and taken your mind off the vexing issue a bit.

ShelaghTurner · 14/08/2014 22:59

I used to really fancy David Seaman. Problem is, if I found him in dh's pants, the chances are he wouldn't want to get into mine :(

ShelaghTurner · 14/08/2014 23:01

Damn, missed the added info to. Sorry Cake Flowers

iamusuallybeingunreasonable · 14/08/2014 23:09

Yo ho ho

At the risk of sounding patronising, your hormones have got the better of you

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Mumtobenovember · 14/08/2014 23:10

Thanks for all laughing at me- he comes home from the "gym" where he goes a lot more than normal Latley with spunk all in his pants and then he hides his pants? Hmm sorry but who else would be suspicious

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plinth · 14/08/2014 23:12

Did he hide them? I thought they were on the floor?

I really wouldn't be suspicious on this alone. If there are other things he is doing which make you suspicious, then that changes the situation somewhat.

DiaDuit · 14/08/2014 23:14

he hides them on the bathroom floor? Confused

do you think he really is hiding them or you are more alert to his usual behaviours because you are suspicious?

do you doubt he is going to the gym?

iamusuallybeingunreasonable · 14/08/2014 23:15

Oh delightful, spunk?!?!?

Mum to be November or a couple of bored 14 year olds

Most pregnant women would be grateful he was "spunking" down the gym and not at home!

BeyoncesCat · 14/08/2014 23:16

I can't see your other thread but in all honesty, yes I would be suspicious!

What else has happened?

Charley50 · 14/08/2014 23:17

Where did he hide them?

Azquilith · 14/08/2014 23:17

I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. I find it best not to check the inside of DP's pants, best not to go there.

BloodyNaffedOff · 14/08/2014 23:18

well I for one am disappointed not to find a photo if a beponytailed footballer in his knickers!

iamusuallybeingunreasonable · 14/08/2014 23:19

Is it like the Turin shroud?

When you hold then up does it have a likeness for Dave Seaman?

LoveIsAnOpenDoor · 14/08/2014 23:20

I think my dh would hide his boxers too if he had seamen in them, there'd be a lot of explaining to do, particularly as we live nowhere near the sea...

LuluJakey1 · 14/08/2014 23:20

They are not hidden- you said he left them on the bathroom floor when he had a shower.

I don't know about your relationship with your DH but is it a possibility that you are over- thinking and over- sensitive. I am not being rude- I am 20 weeks pregnant and have had a couple of weeks where my behaviour towards DH has been completely irrational and over- sensitive. Fortunately, he is rational and calm and has not bitten back at me.

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Mumtobenovember · 14/08/2014 23:21

They where on the bathroom floor.. Whilst he was showering and I went in to get something and saw them.. Came in the bedroom and posted my concerns and then he had gotten out of the shower and they where gone- not in the wash bin nowhere to be seen- he NEVER cleans up after himself I am always picking up his pants.. Semen or seamen free... I just have a terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach that something is off

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iamusuallybeingunreasonable · 14/08/2014 23:23

Gaviscon

He has had a hand shake, I really wouldn't worry

LuluJakey1 · 14/08/2014 23:23

Also, I avoid DH's worn underwear. There is never anything to be gained from contact with it I find. I pick it out of the washbasket wearing Marigolds and using laundry tongs and avert my eyes. Wink

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Mumtobenovember · 14/08/2014 23:24

What at the gym? I don't care if he wanks but why hide the stained pants??? I have discreetly tried to find them he has actually hidden them!!!! I am so upset I know he's cheating I can feel it

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