DH got girl pregnant on one night stand

[hahasaidtheclown]

DH works for multinational company, works away a lot. I always thought he was the perfect husband/father/son/friend, kind, considerate, always helped with DCs despite working long hours, always ready to help out friends and family, always made me feel special. He has now dropped a bombshell. 4 months ago, whilst in hong kong, had a drunken one night stand (he never drinks!!!!!!, or so I thought), he has now found out the girl is pregnant. I am completely shell shocked, in anger I told him to leave, he has gone to a friends. But now, what do I do, I love him, he says he loves me, swears he has never done this before, but I am in turmoil. Also, what does Hong Kong law say about parent support, do they have the equivalent of the CSA, is this going to have massive financial implications for us, is the child actually his. All these things are rushing through my mind, really don't know what to do right now

OK, half an hour to spare this afternoon, drinking tea, looking at 2014 threads and I come across this one. Read the OP post....think what an incredible story but sounds like a 'wind-up'...then I spot it was 1st April and the OP was called HaHaSaidthe Clown - surely an April Fool's joke?? Surely?

Makes you wonder!

If you don't think it's genuine, you should report to HQ, not accuse the OP on the thread.

So sorry op hold your head high you have done nothing wrong.
On another note I would be livid that he was not only playing away and lying about it but also not even bothering to use a condom therefore risking a pregnancy and std for you and him. That for me is unforgivable.

ZOMBIE THREAD!!!!!!!

Yeah we know Joysmum but thanks for the warning

Desert resurrected it by 'looking at 2014 threads and I come across this one' and felt the need to question it's authenticity.