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Occasionally bothered by husbands numerous sexual partners

236 replies

pigletandme · 15/08/2006 21:15

Dh and i have been together about 6 years and soon after we were together he admitted to me that when he was alot younger (18/19) he slept with about 15 (he can't remember exactly) girls when he was at college - all his friends did the same and it was all "meaningless" He was mid 30's when we met and since the age of 19 only had 3 girlfriends and no other casual flings. He regrettted his behaviour at college and got checked for std's soon after he left as he was worried incase he could have passed on anything to a future girlfriend although he said he always used protection. Sometimes what he did bothers me (although i have certain things in the past which i would never do again)but i try to tell myself it was all such a long time ago and his "relationship history" since the age of 19 has been quite tame. I suppose i should put it out of my mind once and for all?

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expatinscotland · 17/08/2006 23:51

FFS, Tamba! Where were you meeting all these blokes?!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 17/08/2006 23:51

That goes without saying Expat....

Tamba, im a little concerned...oozing nob, half a nob, little nob......?

TambaIsInTheClique · 17/08/2006 23:53

I met him on a train at Wood End. He was the uglier one, my mate got the better looking one grrrr. We were only 15 though.

Half-a-knob I met in a tesco car park

TambaIsInTheClique · 17/08/2006 23:55

Oh and te one with the little willy we met in a chippy. the owner said we could have free chips if we came round the back to play monopoly

expatinscotland · 17/08/2006 23:55

You should try rockclimbing.

Their harness shows off their unit pretty well, so you can sort of guess what you're getting before you unwrap your package.

TambaIsInTheClique · 17/08/2006 23:59

I just discovered my platimun rampant rabbit so am spared the worry of ending up with small willies for a little while, til the novelty wears off!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 00:05

Expat, remind me how you got into rock climbing in the first place

expatinscotland · 18/08/2006 00:07

Oh, yeah, VVV, I met ex h at a party and he took me home for a shag.

When I woke up the next morning, he had all these ropes on the floor and pictures of climbing cliffs, climbing mags, posters of 8,000m peaks, etc.

I was like, 'What is this all about?'

He said, 'Well, why don't you come along. I'll show you.'

And the prospect of shagging him so more was all I needed.

I became a climber.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 00:12

LOL! Marvellous!

Im guessing you werent at all concerned when you saw all the ropes and harnessess?

TambaIsInTheClique · 18/08/2006 00:13

Where do you find them Expat? I have been looking in the wrong places in the past it seems (although what did I expect from the prat doing doughnuts in tescos car park???)

expatinscotland · 18/08/2006 00:14

I was intrigued, VVV.

I thought, 'Hmm, I didn't take him for the kinky type.'

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 00:21

Apparently you can "tell" who is into that sort of thing. So im told.

TambaIsInTheClique · 18/08/2006 00:25

Nothing wrong with kinky!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 00:29

No, but, I object to being accused of being into the BDSM scene just by my looks lol!

TambaIsInTheClique · 18/08/2006 00:37
Grin
alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 00:49

ok the weirdest one i ever saw was short but really wide-practically square.and i started laughing and when he said ' why are you laughing ?' i had to make some lame comment about how amazing it was that we are all so different!

and my first had the tiniest knob in christendom i swear.

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 00:50

bdsm??????

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 00:56

Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 00:57

golly!

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 00:58

i did say to dh once that i wish he'd been my first and he said that if i was he wouldn't have married me because he wanted to marry someone who knew hwat they were doing.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 01:02

Yes, golly! Was qutie unnerving that an ex work colleague came up and started talking about "the scene" to me. Because I knew some of the terminology it just spurred him on.

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 01:04

and what did you say? what could you say!!?????

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 01:12

Well, he wouldnt have it that I didnt go to club meets etc.

He was adamant I wanted to be dominated. I couldnt stop laughing because I just kept picturing him in a gimp suit lol!

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 01:14

pmsl!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the cheek! how very dare he???!!!!! what is it about you? do you trot about the office with a leather tail stuck up your arse???!!!!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 01:16

No, apparently I just look like I want it, but in a submissive way, pmsl!