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Occasionally bothered by husbands numerous sexual partners

236 replies

pigletandme · 15/08/2006 21:15

Dh and i have been together about 6 years and soon after we were together he admitted to me that when he was alot younger (18/19) he slept with about 15 (he can't remember exactly) girls when he was at college - all his friends did the same and it was all "meaningless" He was mid 30's when we met and since the age of 19 only had 3 girlfriends and no other casual flings. He regrettted his behaviour at college and got checked for std's soon after he left as he was worried incase he could have passed on anything to a future girlfriend although he said he always used protection. Sometimes what he did bothers me (although i have certain things in the past which i would never do again)but i try to tell myself it was all such a long time ago and his "relationship history" since the age of 19 has been quite tame. I suppose i should put it out of my mind once and for all?

OP posts:
expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:31

'Doncha wish your girlfriend was a FREAK like me!'

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:32

Did he show you the video, Blu ?

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:33

Toothy sent me the photos.... hes hot

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:35

Blu - I was
Tamba - you bitch! Did you send them on to anyone???

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:35

Oooo, I think you should sell it online, Tamba .

I wouldn't trade any of me fond memories.

Makes me all the more grateful for DH.

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:37

Might take a trip to member profiles.....

Your wuverly you are toothy....

I would swop the crap men for decent ones but wouldnt change the number etc. Although might have avoided the one that kept making me scratch his back and it was all spotty eeeuuughhh made me shudder. Dont care how good he was. Nothing is worth that!

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:38

Eeeww, Tamba. I had an almost one who was like a gorilla, he had so much hair.

YUK!

I slept w/his best pal instead .

He was HOT - smooth as Tennessee whiskey, sweet as California wine.

Blu · 15/08/2006 23:38

I'm posting the close-up of toothy's bum on member profiles in revenge!

Beeeeeetch!

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:39

You're all slappers!

suejonez · 15/08/2006 23:39

Tamba! - "He tried to hump my leg. Seriously"

Are you sure he was a man not a labrador?

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:40

I've got a picture of Tambas breasts...

Blu - My ass is hot so go ahead!

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:40

Cant do smooth chests. Went out with a lovely guy, really sweet and lovely and rich too. Treated me like a princess. Until he took his shirt off. And it was waxed (although he denyed it) yuk yuk yuk felt unnatural. Too smooth. Was hairless everywhere actually. Not even stubble. He must have spent ages in the bathroom everyday. He went off me though. I threw up on him. Oh well!

snowlenin · 15/08/2006 23:40

Tamba - you passed up the opportunity for a good squeeze-athon? Should have handed him over to me!

suejonez · 15/08/2006 23:41

Ahem, ladies! Think you've wandered of the point a bit and poor piglet is and needs some smelling salts.

Bet she's decided her DH is as pure as the driven snow compared to you lot.

Blu · 15/08/2006 23:41

Yes!

back to piglet....is this giving you any perspective, Piglet? There must be a reason you feel uncomfortable, but honestly, 15 partners does not make your lovely (I am sure he is...no personal evidence!!) DH a slapper at all, not by any stretch of the imagination!

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:41

God, toothy, I am sitting her trying to remember if you really have.....

Yup Sue. My leg. Seriously. I was lying there and he was rubbing against it moaning. I just thought WTF! ANd tried to shake him off, but he just enjoyed that all the more.

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:42

Snow - your post just made me shudder!

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:42

Why thank you Expat

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:45

Tamba
It wasn't just his chest that was hairy. I mean, his back and bum were like a rug.

Boak.

But that's okay, b/c as Ludachris sings, 'Ho's don't feel so sad and blue, cuz most of us . . . is ho's, too!'

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 15/08/2006 23:47

My H was like that. You shoulda seen the bath when he got out of it.

I am remembering allsorts now though. Like the bloke that fell asleep on me when i was still horny so I went and got into bed with his mate! Ah those were the days......

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:49

lol Tamba, I don't...

expatinscotland · 15/08/2006 23:51

Nah, I can top that. Had a bloke fall asleep - pass out drunk - in the middle of it all.

Oh, then there was this HOT climber, who must remain nameless.

He had a party at his. But I got so drunk I forgot how far out his house was.

Of course, I woke up around 6AM one cold winter morning and tried to make my escape.

Only his house had one of htose automatic locking doors and I accidentally left me keys in his bedroom - they must have fallen out of my bag.

I had to rap on his window till he woke up.

He wasn't upset tho. In fact, he offered me his shower and I decided to stay a bit.

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:55

I went out with a guy who was SOOOOO sexy! Went out a couple of times then I ended up back at his flat.... was disappointed enough with the size of his know.... then he came after 3 thrusts!

THEN to make matters worse.. he joked "I'm a sprinter, not a marathon runner!"!!

I slept with him 3 times after that and he said exactly the same thing each time. Needless to say he was dumped!

Toothache · 15/08/2006 23:56

His know...being his knob!

nappyaddict · 16/08/2006 00:39

am i being dumb ... what are Ps and Hs?

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