Occasionally bothered by husbands numerous sexual partners

[pigletandme]

Dh and i have been together about 6 years and soon after we were together he admitted to me that when he was alot younger (18/19) he slept with about 15 (he can't remember exactly) girls when he was at college - all his friends did the same and it was all "meaningless" He was mid 30's when we met and since the age of 19 only had 3 girlfriends and no other casual flings. He regrettted his behaviour at college and got checked for std's soon after he left as he was worried incase he could have passed on anything to a future girlfriend although he said he always used protection. Sometimes what he did bothers me (although i have certain things in the past which i would never do again)but i try to tell myself it was all such a long time ago and his "relationship history" since the age of 19 has been quite tame. I suppose i should put it out of my mind once and for all?

Yeah, he kept whispering that for a bit.

He got over it, though .

He just needed to be distracted.

I had another like that. 'This is wrong'.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that, pal. In fact, say whatever you want. As long as you don't stop what you're doing .

bet i won't hd - i would have to sit down with pen and paper first

and an abacus?

expat, you should have said "no, this is wrong" and slapped him. Then said "now shut up and give it to me".

I should be a novelist. LOL

nah, calculator

with a veyr large display

Erm, my arms wouldn't have reached far up enough to slap his face, HP

was a little perturbed when i checked active convos and this thread was adjacent to 'toad in a very soggy hole'

HD, and expat

Men, so weak willed. You don't stand a chance!

Letutteuse - for you or him? Or both {snigger}

panicpants - me, def. him, probably.

It's a good thing only his will was weak.

But don't you knock off a few from your own list?

Kind of, 'Oh yes darling, definitly not more than you...'

if i were to have that conversation - which i won't - yes, i'd probably doctor the list a bit. which is abit crap of me, but there you go.

doctor - now that reminds of me of one guy...

i bagged my drama teacher, I was 21 he was 40. HE KEPT HIS SOCKS ON FGS!

Met him recently and my mate did laugh as he is old and haggered now...

I almost got it on with a nurse, great body. Mad as a hatter, though. Started stalking me and we hadn't even done anything.

expat, I won't ask how you were lying if you couldnt reach to slap him. LOL

I wasn't lying down, HD . But I was down indeed.

lol i read that as "started talking to me and we hadn't even done anything"

Socks on? Oh no, you'd think at that age he'd have known better.

Once had a bloke who kept his vest(!) on. Didn't last.

Socks on?!

Oh NO.

Clothes have to all be off - unless in a public place - and I need to be able to see what I'm touching, licking, kissing, etc.

It was always the drama teacher that got the girls. They always smoked and were "liberated" the dirty bastards.

expat, you wouldnt have been able to see his face anyway, let alone slap it! LOL

P.S. you ARE a filthy ride, aren't you?

Thats 'cus drama teachers thought they could 'connect' with their students..

Drama teacher = unwashed minger egomaniac

Latin or philosophy teacher = gem in the rough. Clean, neat-looking. But really an animal in tweed ready to service you all night.

My philosophy professor seemed so mild.

But he was a dirty ride.

Wolf in sheep's clothing, expat?

Drama teacher's always wanted to "connect" with the female students!

God yes, he shagged loads of students!!

Yes, expat, I remember the 'I shouldn't be doing this scenario' - no you shouldn't especially not in your marital bed.