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Occasionally bothered by husbands numerous sexual partners

236 replies

pigletandme · 15/08/2006 21:15

Dh and i have been together about 6 years and soon after we were together he admitted to me that when he was alot younger (18/19) he slept with about 15 (he can't remember exactly) girls when he was at college - all his friends did the same and it was all "meaningless" He was mid 30's when we met and since the age of 19 only had 3 girlfriends and no other casual flings. He regrettted his behaviour at college and got checked for std's soon after he left as he was worried incase he could have passed on anything to a future girlfriend although he said he always used protection. Sometimes what he did bothers me (although i have certain things in the past which i would never do again)but i try to tell myself it was all such a long time ago and his "relationship history" since the age of 19 has been quite tame. I suppose i should put it out of my mind once and for all?

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alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 01:19

rofl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 01:22

Wouldnt be first time I was called a tease either

alexsmilitantmum · 18/08/2006 01:38

he called you a tease? because you said you weren't into bdsm?

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 10:21

Yes. As I said, coz apparently I look like "I want it". LOLOLOLOLOL. Have NO idea what that says about my looks!

Panboy · 18/08/2006 13:45

I agree totally with VVV.....whatever she said...yes, hmmm..I think it means you have a gift of being a big turn on to hetro-sexual males (and homo-sexual females, possibly), but unless you have been told this already it could be entirely in the mind of your "admirer" who clearly had intentions toward you....

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 17:21

Er thanks. I think.

I'd get called a tease with alarming regularity actually. I happen to think though, that its because I have a discerning taste ..............

Panboy · 18/08/2006 19:06

Glad to see your reputation is intact then....btw, am I groupie-ing well enough???

WideWebWitch · 18/08/2006 19:08

15 shmifteen, it's nothing imo! So, no I wouldn't be bothered, not at all.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 18/08/2006 19:09

Well, you aren't doing too bad. Not following me onto every thread and no threads shouting for me yet though.

Panboy · 18/08/2006 19:22

No there are some threads I see you on but demur from entering, though I am supporting you quietly in a non-scripting way...

dabihp · 18/08/2006 20:01

you should look at it that he slept around then, but chose you to settle down with, so hopefully that menas he wont have the urge to sleep around now!!!

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