Shagged a really good friend on Friday night. Sigh....

[FrazzleRock]

Why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why?

It almost feels like I've had sex with a brother or something.

But I kind of liked it.
Did I say that out loud?

Oh MAN.

We've not spoken since. Awkward.

Sound advice Bunny

Duh! I can't even spell male and I haven't been drinking.

Stop faffing! Its clear you'd like to do it again, he like to do it again or he wouldn't come and see you.

Don't mess it up and watch him hook up and you watch sadly from the sidelines. Read love in a time of cholera and see what happens when you faff and end up together too old to shag. No time before Sunday though:)

Am contemplating embarking on similar with way more baggage and I'm not buggering it up this time:)

Jfdi so to speak

Yeah, be brave and say what needs saying. That way you'll get the information you need about his intentions towards you & can plan accordingly. Hope all goes well on Sunday. Do let us know how you get on. Fingers crossed!

I think he's keen! Impatiently waiting next weeks update!

He does reply to your texts very quickly

He certainly does Bugsy! But then friends always do...

Danny - if you're not the OPs best friend, fuck off.

Bloody Daily Mail, we probably have weeks of sexual chancers and misfits popping in to offer their services to lonely mumsnetters. Sigh.

Fed up but I am waiting with baited breathe let us know Sunday!

Blimey, what did I miss there?

An utter knob fishing for sexxxxxy times, Frazzle. There was an article in the Daily Mail about that poster from Sheffield offering similar the other day getting short shrift on here.

Ah right. Thanks for the heads up Dust!

You made the need frazzle!!!! Well done......now what are you wearing Sunday?

Just to give you a slightly different picture to all those who married the friend. I too shagged a good friend more than once actually. Then we decided we would be better as friends than lovers. Good call on my part as he is totally unreliable as a partner, but a great friend and 20 years on we are still really close friends.

Missed that!

I haven't really thought about what to wear. I'm just going to be my normal self and put on whatever I feel like, depends on the weather too.
I don't want to get stressed about it as it's a normal day out with my friend, just see what happens
But probably skater dress, big jumper over the top, warm tights, my little black pixie boots, and my huge warm cosy Top Shop bargain leopard print coat. Or something like that!

Ok for the outer clothes, just make sure you've got your best undies on....

Have you read the book called 'One Day'?

I have done Lizzie. I've also seen the film, though I can't remember much of it apart from the bicycle crash....

I just think the theme tells you that you should grasp the day, not wait till the end. Not all men are in it just for the sex. Men are not complex like women.
Good luck for today x

Sorry to disappoint. He can't make it.
He was working until very late last night and isn't feeling great today. Besides, the weather has turned grim.

I'm actually really not feeling this whole thing anyway. I think I got a bit ahead of myself, but in reality, I really cannot see us together in the long run. I think he's really get on my nerves. He's great in small doses, but day in day out? Hmm....

I know what you mean. I'm not sure if it's the older I get or the longer I've been single but think day in day out I would find anyone an irritation.

I'd move on frazzle. If u were mad keen, a late night wouldn't put u off seeing someone. Cut your losses and fish in other pools! :-)