Shagged a really good friend on Friday night. Sigh....

[FrazzleRock]

Why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why?

It almost feels like I've had sex with a brother or something.

But I kind of liked it.
Did I say that out loud?

Oh MAN.

We've not spoken since. Awkward.

Text back -just hadnt heard from you and your massive cock for a few days, was worried

ToniViolin - I've text him, I've cleared the air. Don't think I'm ready (or want to?) ask him out.

God this is SO weird.

YY he's not going to want to look like a needy twat. Arrange to SEE HIM :o

You LIKE him

:)

If you don't want to ask him out, don't. Presumably you will see him again so it's not like you're going to miss the opportunity if you sit on it for a bit.

You're not falling over yourself to ask him out, he's not falling over himself to ask you out. Reader, sometimes you shag a very good friend and do not marry him.

Alibaba - it's just chit chat now. Just normal stuff like nothing's happened.

Headless - DYING laughing

I think it's luffly.

He totally has obviously always fancied you btw.

Shall I bring up the shagging? Or leave it?

Fanjo - Can you tell that from one text?

One of you has to shift that big ole grey thing with the trunk outta the way

I'd wait and see if I felt The Fizzy when I saw him.

Oh I didn't mean Out out

I can just tell from the whole scenario

Look, you shagged each other 10 years ago last time you were single and it happened again now you unattached again. You obviously feel something for each other and it can't have been unredeemingly awful last time. What are you so afraid of? Risking the friendship? TBH, when DH finally got round to asking me out I pondered for a couple of days (and totally panicked him) because I was scared of losing him as a friend if I didn't work out. We talked it through and decided to give it a go - like I said 20 years & counting. A solid friendship gets you through a lot of relationship ups & downs and life events.

haha. I feel a lot less weirdy now we've communicated. Thanks for the kick up the arse!

We're still beating about the bush (so to speak). Maybe that's a good thing though. Means we can both reflect a bit longer and see what happens when we see each other again.

You must like him??

I think he wants to beat around the bush some more -

Make plans to see one another soon & take it from there...

Yeah I think we do DustBunny, but it's been so long since last time that it was kind of forgotten. However, we both agreed this second time around we shouldn't have left it so long and we should do it more often.
Although we were both pretty drunk.

However, we both agreed this second time around we shouldn't have left it so long and we should do it more often.

So don't....

sit on it for a bit

This is exciting! I badly want it to work out