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Shagged a really good friend on Friday night. Sigh....

209 replies

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 20:40

Why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why?

It almost feels like I've had sex with a brother or something.

But I kind of liked it.
Did I say that out loud?

Oh MAN.

We've not spoken since. Awkward.

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GeekInThePink · 06/01/2014 21:13

Text him!

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:14

Right. Well. Here goes...
I really don't want to do this.

Oh fuckity fuck fucking bloody hell.

Sigh..... OKAY!

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DustBunnyFarmer · 06/01/2014 21:15

If he asks you how you feel, could you say "well, I fancied you enough to shag you" or were you totally compromised by alcohol (beer goggles 'n' all)?

lunar1 · 06/01/2014 21:15

Text him

TheGonnagle · 06/01/2014 21:16

I shagged my closest male friend when I was 21. 15 years later we are married with dd.
Go for it!

Innocentbystander01 · 06/01/2014 21:18

I shagged my closest friend,we have been together 18 years almost.

IndiansInTheLobby · 06/01/2014 21:18

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:19

Done it. ARRGGHH.

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FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:20

Ooh already text back

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 06/01/2014 21:20
DustBunnyFarmer · 06/01/2014 21:20

Been with my male best friend for the last 20 years & 2 kids, though I definitely fancied him from the get-go and wanted more. This may discount the best friend claim though.

perplexedpirate · 06/01/2014 21:21

Also married to good friend I certainly shouldn't have shagged.

It's our 5th wedding anniversary this year. I think he likes me! Wink

fightingthecarrots · 06/01/2014 21:21
NorksAreMessy · 06/01/2014 21:21

Heehee!

You LIKE him

Heehee!

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:21

He said

"Of course we're cool! Why wouldn't we be? ;) X"

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FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:21
NorksAreMessy · 06/01/2014 21:21

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NorksAreMessy · 06/01/2014 21:22

Awwwww :)

FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:22

Ooh, x posted Grin.

So, is that a 'good thing' Fraggle?

FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:22

He likes you, he does.

DustBunnyFarmer · 06/01/2014 21:23

I think you should try him out sober, just to be sure. Wink

ToniViolin · 06/01/2014 21:25

the wink is important. that's an acknowledgement.

Ask him out now. You need to see him to know if you are going to do it again. You can't sort that out over a phone.

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:25

Is it? I don't know?

He's now texting away like nowt's happened. Chatty, usual stuff...
Boring. Sorry guys!

Norks - Do I? Maybe.... I don't know! Maybe... err....

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FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:25

It is important to be sure.

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 06/01/2014 21:25

I think he likes you but he's scared to stick his neck out. That reply puts the ball right back in your court.

How are you going to respond?