Dolly it's a right PITA when they do that. He might just be a bit shit and hungover (in my experience men are shockingly bad at dealing with hangovers, and just lie around all day being rather 'poor me' about it, rather than manning up, taking a couple of Ibuprofen and a sugary drink and just getting on with things!), he might have gone off the boil. If it's the former, you should hear more from him tomorrow. Fingers crossed.
Agree with Ike life could be worse. I don't have wine, but I do have biscuits and chocolate, which is good enough! Have come over a bit deep and meaningful today as it's my mum's anniversary, I tend to lose the plot a bit in the days leading up to it, but am now feeling oddly peaceful and much more what will be will be - in a positive way (unlike me!).