western, you need to get a grip of this i think. I know if i say anything you will defend him and say about how you only say the bad things on here and how hes great all the time, but from where im sitting it really doesnt seem that way at all.
You are still carrying issues from your last relationship, he doesnt seem to be helping and in fact seems to be highlighting them and possibly making them worse. Which is even worse when you have actaually told him the score.
Its almost every other day when you are saying something is up with him. Is this what you want? really? you havent been dating long, again, it should be nice, it should be happy. if its crap in the beginning, its only going to get worse...
Maybe hes not in a position to date, not really. But what you need to do here, is to think about what you really want, out of life, out of a relationship. If you arent getting it from him, and i dont think hes going to give you what you want, then you need to leave it and move on to someone that will.
Put yourself first for once.
It seems most of your angst is caused because your sub consccience is telling you this isnt right, you dont like it, but every time you convince yourself its ok and its just you. Listen to what its telling you.
Not to go on, but dating is meant to be fun. And i really want to post a link to any fuckers thread. truely. It seems like its needed on here at the momment.