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Honey traps leading to kinky fuckery and other dating adventures (No 21)

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KirstyWirsty · 29/08/2012 14:32

I want to know what Nicholas's tip was ... and the last thread was full!

OP posts:
Worley · 29/08/2012 22:28

fayster... I have to say overall he is quite a decent chap.. he's been nothing but honest throughout and I know he's got a lot on emotionally at the moment. when I first discovered it was so soon after splitting with his wife I told him it was probably too early to be looming for the next relationship but he was adamant he was.. and I think it's now hit him. he's going to counselling now too. one of his oldest friends is on dialysis and has kidney failure. she is only early 30's and has two young children. he has even just tested to be a suitable donor for a kidney for her :(
so I think I'm just not what he needs at the moment really..

Yogagirl17 · 29/08/2012 22:43

There you go Worley, thread started Wink

Worley · 29/08/2012 22:48

oooh going to go look...
I could copy and paste a few texts I've been sent today lol

MeVTHIM · 29/08/2012 22:50

Hi Guys,
Can I join you?
I'm newly single and have jumped into this world of dating, which is very new to me (ie. it has been about 13 years since I last was here).

I have tried OD which was pretty disappointing, and recently met someone in real life (gasp), and he's playing head games with me. The annoying thing is he is not good looking at all and I was making all kinds of allowances for him, and he's suddenly playing hard to get! How dare he?! I'm gorgeous, highly educated etc etc. Can't believe he's playing head games with me when I was being straight with him! It's enough to make me want to retreat into my shell and simply not bother Sad.

snapespeare · 29/08/2012 22:58

I'm alive! so alive! & I can still walk. Just. He is incredible in bed, nowhere near as perverted as I thought, but extremely attentive. [blush!] sex hormones are fab, aren't they? Tralalaa!

Worley · 29/08/2012 23:02

meVTHIM just ignore him.. head games wear you down and leave you feeling so crap. cut him out and see what he does..
LOL snape on sex hormones (jealous) glad you had a good time :)

snapespeare · 29/08/2012 23:06

Really, he should teach. Incredible. I am walking around alternating Grin & Shock faces.

When he dies, they should cut off his thumbs, cock & tongue & preserve them for the good of all future womankind.

TimeForMeAndDD · 29/08/2012 23:08

I'm pleased you survived Snape and I'm pleased The Prof didn't disappoint Grin

When is round 2??

TimeForMeAndDD · 29/08/2012 23:09
Grin
ChaoticismyLife · 29/08/2012 23:14

Really, he should teach.

Sex education? Grin

ChaoticismyLife · 29/08/2012 23:17

MeV don't indulge him. Just ignore him and get on with your life. Do not chase him, don't text/phone or contact him at all. Continue with OD, it can be disappointing but you may just meet someone decent.

Yogagirl17 · 29/08/2012 23:19

Snape - jealous Angry! (but Grin for you!!!)

So I'm talking to some guy on OKC about superheroes Hmm

NicholasTeakozy · 29/08/2012 23:32

Good for you Snape. Plan B for Friday...

Lueji · 29/08/2012 23:36

Snape. :o

Glad you had a fab time.
So, what's next? Wink

Lueji · 29/08/2012 23:44

Still waiting for Sponge, too. :o

That and I've just had an early night goodbye from Mr K on the phone because I had to make a tax payment online.
This after meeting earlier today.

And watching the Paralympics opening ceremony.

MeVTHIM
Just stop the game. As they say, it takes two. So, just withdraw. No point in getting drawn in.
Even if he was a sex god, it wouldn't be worth it.

Yogagirl17 · 29/08/2012 23:48

FFS - just found one I actually like on OKC and he's 6'2"!!

Llareggub · 29/08/2012 23:54

Hello- I am back from a lovely second date. We had a kiss - I think there will be a third date but I am leaving the ball in his court. He is lovely - and v v v tall!

MeVTHIM · 30/08/2012 00:07

Thanks guys, you've just confirmed what I thought. I mean, there's no problem going days without texts/emails, but when the status quo is loads of emails a day (literally hours of texts every evening...yes, I know I shouldn't have indulged in the first place and it's my own fault), two days of no contact is just...rude...isn't it? I mean, it literally takes two minutes to say 'I'm really busy at the moment', doesn't it? Radio silence is just rude, isn't it? I mean, if you've had enough, why not just say so, especially when we have to see each other at some point as our kids go to the same school?

MeVTHIM · 30/08/2012 00:08

Yoga stop showing off...I'm 5'10 and only ever find short-arses!

snapespeare · 30/08/2012 00:12

What next? Plan B for Friday. :).

Prof is amazing, excellent chat, funny, kind, attentive, super -intelligent, accomplished. You are all going to [wetfish] me... It's still PM. feels like it always has been, always will be, it just is.

Clearly my sex hormones are slightly out of kilter.

Posted the eels 'my kind of love is an ugly love'. On fb 'for a quiet man'. As PM is on radio-silence today.

This is fucked-up.

NicholasTeakozy · 30/08/2012 00:25

No, I agree Snape. It is PM. It's always been PM. Tonight was purely about you. Plan B is go then?

snapespeare · 30/08/2012 00:31

Plan B is a go. Bottle of Laphroaig & a new tattoo to show off.

Could NOT stay overnight, couldn't imagine waking up next to the prof, I metaphorically fall asleep with my hand on PMs heart every night.

Yogagirl17 · 30/08/2012 00:41

Aw, Snape that's really lovely actually. Smile

MeV - sorry! I'm only 5'0 - can we swap?

NicholasTeakozy · 30/08/2012 00:44

I metaphorically fall asleep with my hand on PMs heart every night.

That is the most beautiful thing I've ever read.

snapespeare · 30/08/2012 00:48

Oh Nicholas, you BIG GIRL. clearly, I meant 'cock'. I just got confused because I have very recently seen one. Wink Grin