Honey traps leading to kinky fuckery and other dating adventures (No 21)

[KirstyWirsty]

I want to know what Nicholas's tip was ... and the last thread was full!

Yoga, I'm finding the same (I'm the same height as you) on okc. Luckily, I much prefer tall men.

Snape, glad all went well with the prof. I know you love pm, but in my romcom, you turn around at the last minute, and run towards the prof in the sunset...

I know I'm a softie Snape. :o But my previous post still stands. It's still the most beautiful thing I've read.

I still lurk...but I don't post cos I can't actually keep up with you guys...the threads are moving SOOOOO fast.

But...(and being a bit tongue in cheek...and no offence intended to Nicholas...)

You say that you think PM may have seen you on this thread...

And Nicholas is offerring you advice on how to catch you man in a failsafe manner....

...ans Nicholas is wooed by you sentimental comments about PM...

....any chance we have a stalker???

Nicholas, me too :)

I'm back. I've had a brilliant evening. He got me steaming drunk. I have no idea if I will see him again but it was great, and you know if he doesnt want to see me again he is VERY stupid.

Plus we are friends on FB now and he tagged me in his status which has to count for something

I think tonight was possibly the best first date ever.

I can't put this on FB because date is my friend now... but it really was. I will probably never see him again, such is my luck, but I really really hope I do :)

And yes I am pissed. But I'd still think the same sober.

Sponge, have three cheers from me for your date. I think you will get to date two. :)

Haunted, I am not PM. I think he's based in the rural idyll that is London village, whereas I am not.

Ah Nicholas, I could hug you. I really, truly, hope this is the elusive second date. Fingers crossed :)

Wooohooo! I think I might give up OD and just date vicariously on here

I have just seen GS referred to as "Guardian SoulDestroyers" bahahahaha.
Yoga I get what you're saying. I am not impressed, really.
Go Snape and Sponge! Fab news. Am more convinced than ever that PM and you are Meant To Be.

Snape got laid!!!!!!!!!! :) :) glad it was fab, enjoy the sex hormones. Sex is a wonderous thing :)
So, the plan b, are you going to make a move?

And sponge :) :) that is fab too. I.wouldn't read too much into the fb thing but It could be a good sign..really hope this breaks the second date curse.

Now the thrill has worn off a bit, I can stop just thinking about me me me...

sponge I am delighted you had a lovely evening. Truly! :) fingers are firmly x'd for your 2nd date. :) you must update as soon as things develop. :) llareggub glad your date went well, I think time said, upthread that it's meant to be fun...just take each date as is & I really like that attitude, we're all looking for affirmation, really like that it's happening.

watch date Saturday? Fast mover! Have fun! :) what's happening wirh mr not-so-L?

hello! :)

Hurray for Wednesday night!
All fingers crossed for you sponge,

I know, It's fast, but he seems nice, It's only coffee, and after This weekend I'm not free for another two weeks.
Nothing more has happened with mrl, same plan as before, dump after the weekend, Blame myself.

I know it makes me look bad and heartless, I'm not.
Mrl has a big thing in London tomorrow, which I don't want to ruin. ( which he can afford first class travel for, but not afford to pay what he owes me, nor even buy me an ice cream Last weekend)
I'm also very aware that he was pretty much a recluse, I don't want to hurt him and send him back to that.
Ive also got two very stressful days now.
I dont need to add to it, Its more than enough to cope with as it is.

I wasnt expecting to get a date with anyone decent for ages, but mr dish is there, with a 93% match, we have tons in common, and if you dont strike when the iron is hot, you lose out.

Oh blimey have had an amazing first date. Totally bowled over by this man, think he is by me too. Sexy sexy bloke and a lovely person to boot. Only (slight) problem is he lives an hour away.

Trying to arrange babysitter so I can see him again Fri/Sat.

You don't really owe him anything, watch.
It's not like you are his gf or anything.

Go and have fun.

You are very right about striking the hot iron watch.
Sponge and snape and

I have a terrible hangover.

I also have a strong feeling I won't see last nights date again. Honestly is it asking too much to find one man who wants to see me more than once? Possibly in my case...off to take some Ibuprofen and hope I'm wrong.

watch! wasn't being critical, not at all! think it's very affirming that you're straight back on OKC. :)

sponge

[wetfish]

that is all.

Need advice on how to play it on second date. Huge sexual attraction between us but we talked about this and both said we don't want it to be just about the sex. I could bloody jump him though. Won't do, will meet at a pub to help avoid temptation .

No, I'm sure from.the outside it looks bad..
I'm not a bad person.
I felt the need to explain.

Had mr l not been selfish, rude and sponged off me, then of course I would have dealt with it first, and not even thought about it.
Sunday there was a car boot, we all went along, there was a stall selling lovely girls stuff, all joules, boden, fat face etc and in dd's size. I never see stuff in her size, so got as much as I could spending all my money. Bearing in mind he owed me 7 for things he asked me to pick up for him, plus half the food for the weekend, which he said he wouid Give me Friday, but never did.... So I was expecting maybe 40 from him...
I then had no money for an ice cream for dd and I. He got one for himself and walked off.... My mum stepped in and got ours....

That's shit behaviour.
If you dont treat people with respect, then you cant expect to be treated with it yourself.

I dont feel upset or sad about it at all, so don't see why I shouldn't jump bsvk out there :)

Sponge, why do you think that?

Snape, are you seeing prof again?

Western, if you don't want to I would avoid the pub. Booze leads to bonking!

Western meeting at the pub may be a good idea just don't end up getting as hammered as I was last night :)

I have had 2 texts from my date this morning. Both were pictures of his cock

Sponge. Well, it seems he does want to see you.... But It's highly likely he wouid shag and run.
If you are ok with that, go for it, but I expect you are not and know you want a relationship.... You deserve more than that, you know that.
If I were you id say thanks but no thanks.

Very little booze will be involved as both driving. Need to keep a clear head here to stop the whole thing degenerating into fwb situation. I want more than that, first one I've met that I could imagine having a relationship with.

How soon can I shag him bearing in mind the above?

Sponge agree with watch, though my first instinct was to send him a picture of your breakfast, hurriedly brought up after seeing cock pics!