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Support thread for survivors of childhood sexual abuse PART 6

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CailinDana · 11/06/2012 15:49

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5

The purpose of these threads is to allow survivors of childhood sexual abuse, their partners, friends, or parents, to talk in a safe place about what they think and feel. Nothing is off limits or taboo, just say what you want to say.

OP posts:
Offred · 12/06/2012 22:47

Dotty -AngrySad

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 22:49

Offred my Gp never gave me a choice with the AD's

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 22:50

Offred can I ask a daft question?

Offred · 12/06/2012 22:52

Go on.

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 22:53

Where did you get your nickname from?

Offred · 12/06/2012 22:54

Handmaid's tale dotty by Margaret attwood.

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 22:54

Low dosage ad's helped me to get through the early stages but I had to deal with it,

Offred · 12/06/2012 22:56

m.sparknotes.com/lit/handmaid/summary.html

If not read it. It gives the inaccurate impression that I read fiction. I don't, but I do love this book. Also the edible bride by the same author.

Offred · 12/06/2012 22:56

Edible woman even!

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 22:57

:o I thought it might be because you have strawberry blonde hair, off red. What's the book about?

Where is everyone else's names from?

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 22:57

Knew it was, was one of my favourite books at one time weird what it's about considering everything.

Offred · 12/06/2012 22:58

www.enotes.com/edible-woman

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 22:59

Olympic there was also a film made about it hard to explain really in an apocalyptic world where few fertile remain all the influential people are allowed a 'handmaid' for the husband to hopefully have a child with wrong on all sides.

Offred · 12/06/2012 23:01

Read the summary Olympic!

I'm excessively fertile, it is a blessing and a curse. I identify with the book.

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 23:04

sad book

Offred · 12/06/2012 23:05

I do have red hair, but it is fake.

Offred · 12/06/2012 23:06

All Atwood is sad I think.

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 23:07

In my mind it was legalised rape in that book, I have 3 children one was on the pill with our surprise and one lost [wasn't mean't to be]

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 23:13

You know feminism has widely past me by. Although people here and in rl refer to me as a feminist.

I've always thought of women as being just as good as men, I'm into science and technology etc and can change a plug etc

My family always derided me for being a feminist incapable of treating a man right.

Where's your name from Dotty?

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 23:16

nowhere Olympic used to have another name but was boring and I left when the shit hit the fan and couldn't cope so wasn't allowed to use it again

Belleflowers · 12/06/2012 23:16

I fell asleep on the sofa yikes what time is it
Have to go to bed now y'all
thanks for the chat today sleep well all x

dottyspotty2 · 12/06/2012 23:18

night Belle sleep well x

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 23:20

The earths children series by Jean M Auel is kind of set in a matriarchal/equal society, the lead female is raped in childhood, evicted from her family, survives on her own and finds a new family. I relate to her a lot but was disappointed with the last book.

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 23:21

Night Belle

OlympicNCerExtrordinaire · 12/06/2012 23:27

There's a fair bit of sex in them though but I tend to skip those parts!

It has started me off researching the demise of women in religion though which I'm enjoying researching.

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