The honing of the twat radars - dating chat thread number 9

[lubeybooby]

Thread got too big so here's a new one :o

All dating, online or otherwise in here please

Chit chat to serious stuff - off we go!

'You know who ( i need a shorter name)'

voldemort!

it isn't a good thing, he's either playing again, bored, feeling a bit vindictive or just plain stupid. The levels of fuckmuppetry continue to rise.

what it means is that i cant meet up with him on a friends basis. So hes just stupid.

feedback Please go to the police and report the bastard and report your experience to the sysops at the dating site

OMG Feedback that is awful. I am not surprised you were so upset. IS there anyone you can talk to, your daughter, women's aid? You know this is not your fault I hope. He gave up and shouted abuse not because he found you awful and unattractive but more likely because he realised he went too far. Have you thought of contacting the police and letting the dating site know. Hope your OK as it sounds as though it has brought old feeling of a past relationship up. For what its worth it is very rare to meet such a bastard but it obviously can happen.

Feedback How are you today? I know how hard this must be for you but I am with the others urging you to report this man. I hope you are doing ok x

watch 'You Know Who' aka Twat? That's shorter. Git, shorter still. I think You Know Who/Twat/Git is contacting you because you have pulled back. You are not as available to him any more and he knows this, his ego may be needing a boost, don't give it to him.

Fingers crossed it won't snow until after you have met with the Teacher. I think now that YKW is back in touch you need the thrill and diversion of someone who is really into you and not messing you about, emotionally or otherwise. You can always snuggle under the slanket together with a packet of tissues and lemsip each

he hasnt ever not been in touch. I have no idea what he is playing at, ive not been avaliable to him for ages and ages, he certainly doesnt need an ego boost from me. I think he is just being weird, for some mystical reason that i wont ever know. He can stay being weird. Im not in love with him anymore. I care for him, but im not in lvoe with him, there is a huge difference, you nkow.

Oh my Gosh!! I have just heard from MNHQ that I have won a £100 John Lewis voucher after taking part in the Kleenex Balsam trial thingy! My luck is sooo changing.

The guy who my ex fell under the spell of was referred to as Voldemort, The Dark Lord or Darth Fuckhead.

Feedback, at least report him to the site if not the cops. He assaulted you. There could be a number of women in the same situation. If you report him to the site and they have several reports they'll at least ban him and his IP. If no one reports him he goes on his merry way defiling people.

TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:) :) :) :) :)

wow:)

how exciting, what are you going to buy?

A nice little win Time! Onya mate! :)

I don't know watch, I've never shopped at JL before. I wonder if I will be able to use them online as we don't have a store local to us.

I could buy stuff for our holiday! Or save them for Christmas and have a head start

Thank you!

feedback, I hope you're feeling better and aren't dealing with it on your own.

watch I would personally hold off until you're better. There's potential for either of you being crabby and it not going well if you're both dying of colds. I think early days are a bit fair-weather.

The snow may be sabotaging me today. Date no 1 is tonight, but 10 miles away, and not very busy roads to get there. I shall keep an eye on the skies. Snow has not arrived yet. Would be a shame to have to cancel.

Nice one Time. I would buy something completely frivolous with it. I don't know how frivolous you can get at JL, but there must be something.

Thank you Dating, I wouldn't mind a combination microwave oven, is that regarded as frivolous?

Mm. I was thinking more of a lovely scarf or a nice purse, but whatever floats your boat,

no, entirely practical. but still lovely :)

you should spend it on something you wouldnt ususally buy, or would have taken you a while to save up for :)

how exciting, talking of winning things, did your wellies arrive in the end?

Well, with saving for the holiday it would have taken me a while to afford the microwave, they are more expensive than the regular ones. Yes, the wellies eventually turned up! I wore them for the first time when we had snow at the weekend. I think I need to buy a lottery ticket, see if it's third time lucky

NIce one Time - ignore your sensible head and treat yourself to something you wouldn't normally buy yourself, they have some lovely candle type things and unusual things for the house.

How are you today Feedback?

Snow is supposed to get quite bad where i live in the east midlands. Mr Yacht is coming over to mine tonight, just so he can get to work and won't get snowed in of course nothing to do with feeling horny

Zanywany I am also East Mids, the forecast has been blatantly lying. No snow yet.

I have texted to say might rearrange if snow is bad and he replied: Do believe some people got snowed in at a pub for a few days last year. Just a thought.

Is that me or is that quite flirty?

Thanks Zany, I'm not that good at spending money on myself, not unless I really need to. I have some nice candles but can't bring myself to burn them. See what you have to deal with I do love my home though and want to have quality things so I would get a lot of pleasure from a combi microwave, due to the fact I love cooking. But I am going to take time to think about it

Dating Now that would be nice, if he is nice, would be a nightmare if otherwise though! And yes, I would say that's a cheeky flirt.

I think the snow is going to miss us. It's freezing cold but no sign of any snow.

Everyone pull up a chair later/tomorrow/day after for updates from DM's snowed in date from hell then.

Also east midlands and the snow isn't forecast til tonight from 8pm ish, or 3pm if you believe the met office but three other weather sites say 8 to 9pm

Time how lovely :o I won £50 amazon voucher last year, I got myself a lovely cashmere jumper with it - definitely treat yourself and I'm sure they will sort out online codes for you if they are planning on sending a giftcard or paper vouchers. I hope so anyway!

DatingMinefield that is very flirty :o

Definately flirty Dating

I love candles Time. We always have candles lit in the eneving at home but I am forever trying to find decent smelly ones, the yankee ones are really good but really expensive.

If you are near Nottingham Lubey & Dating then there is a 'lights on' thing on around the castle tomorrow night that looks really good.

I love Yankee candles too Zany but yes, they are too expensive. I did buy DD one for her room though when we moved because she liked the smell. We haven't lit it though. I tend to use oil burners and tea lights, essential oils have seen me through many a dark night.

Thanks lubey, I've just been making myself a cup of tea and thinking that it really is time that I started treating myself. Still don't know what to buy though, some nice perfume perhaps. Or some new makeup maybe. I will have to give it some thought