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The honing of the twat radars - dating chat thread number 9

999 replies

lubeybooby · 08/02/2012 20:24

Thread got too big so here's a new one :o

All dating, online or otherwise in here please

Chit chat to serious stuff - off we go!

OP posts:
noluck · 10/02/2012 15:45

Ok, I have decided to step back and wait to see how he responds. Am going out tonight with some friends and tomorrow will be busy ALL day, Sunday idem, must start packing boxes for my move....

Must admit the sex was mind blowing, wouldn't mind going out with him again if only for that Blush

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 15:45

noluck what they said^. Don't be hard on yourself. Just put your cards on the table and see what happens.

Good luck for tonight Snape, I am also out tonight. First date with drinks involved.

From the sound of it, we should be lobbying for the inclusion of a 'Bombshell' option. I don't like average either. Grin

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 15:50

I will never divulge my online comps! nevvvvvvvvvaaaaaaahhh! Grin

I follow the competition general thread on moneysaving expert and enter anything that is a holiday, ipad, telly, perfume, chocolate, vouchers for shops i like, quality handbags, beauty giveaways and anything that I think I might be able to flog on ebay.

don't you dare check in during your night of debauchery watch I do like ' I don't have to go hunting for clothes inbetween'.. inbetween what exactly? Hmm Grin

date! yes! (hasn't as much as kissed someone in over two years (counts christ - 2 years five months and two weeks...) I am wearing a dress. (shreikofhorror!) it's navy blue, scoop necked, hip length, belted with lighter blue jeans underneath and tan mid calf boots. and my lucky red velvet 'pulling' beret.

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 15:50

Crikey Watch! Sounds like a great outfit. If he's not impressed, I'll snog you. Grin

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 15:51

bombshell

i like! :) I laways think of myself as Joan holloway-esque.

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 15:52

form a queue dating Wink

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 15:53

Excuse me, I think I had first dibs. Grin

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 16:01

age before beauty dating - besides I never get any and watch goes for hours that'd make up for the last two years, five months, 2 weeks...

Grin
watchoutforthatsnail · 10/02/2012 16:01

woohoo to all of us :)
Snape - sounds lush. I reckon you are going to have smudged lipgloss by the end of the night :)

i might check in. possibly not. maybe in the early hours.

I already know he fanices the pants off me. he kept saying ' my god, you are fantastic' and i think he calle dme electric once as well. easy pickings :)
i intend on having a lot of fun.

anyway - i told him i woud cook, so i need to go start that off. hes a lucky boy. he had better make it up to me :)

watchoutforthatsnail · 10/02/2012 16:03

haha. this is true, i go for hours and hours. but spend the rest of the week walking about like an old woman

snape - please just get drunk and shag him. just do it. Promise you will have a fab time, no woman should go that long without sex.

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 16:03

I'll consider it if you let me try on your red velvet pulling beret.

lovesadirtylie · 10/02/2012 16:04

noluck, bloke distancing himself after mind blowing sex happens to me all the time Confused
so I try and get in first by distancing myself, at least until my oxytocin levels are back to baseline Grin

best way to forget about him is shag somone else Wink

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 16:06

dating that would depend on whether you are willing to wear it with heels, stockings and a band T-shirt... Wink Grin

Zanywany · 10/02/2012 16:06

Keep those beer/wine/vodka goggles clear Dating Grin

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 16:07

Understood Ma'am.

DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 16:08

snapes I am already wearing those, I just need it to complete my outfit. Grin

noluck · 10/02/2012 16:09

lovesadirtylie, I will remember that advice, thank you Wink

watchoutforthatsnail · 10/02/2012 16:16

that shall be our dating uniform. stockings, heels, band t shirt and a red beret. who could resist?
:)
hahahahaaha

MsCellophane · 10/02/2012 16:17

Dating, watch and snape- how exciting. Here's hoping to great nights for all of you

Noluck - we can all be guilty of keeping our options open, I would ask him where he thinks it is going

Hotbutdim last night was an amazing evening. I still don't think he is boyfriend material for me but I am hoping he will be a true friend with benefits. We both got very drunk and spent most of the night talking and more importantly laughing, proper belly laugh laughing. I didn't get in til 3am (and suffered today)

He is one of lives givers iykwim and I was puzzled last time why he wasn't into receiving, found out why last night. He has a major hang up over his willy lol It has a bend in it and he doesn't like people seeing it. Which made go 'aaw' This man is 6'3, drop dead gorgeous, with a body to die for - just goes to show how we all hate something about ourselves

lovesadirtylie · 10/02/2012 16:19

I should add it's not a perfect solution.

You can get caught in an endless cycle of shagging someone else to wipe out the feelings of soppiness which developed (unbidden and unwarranted) towards the previous bloke Confused Grin

lovesadirtylie · 10/02/2012 16:22

what is he worried about MsC?
I'd have said thats pretty common / normal and really neither here nor there!

TimeForMeAndDD · 10/02/2012 16:23

Snape please don't get drunk and shag him, I always feel like I'm in good company when you mention your two plus years, if you get drunk and shag then I will be left behind Sad Your outfit sounds lovely, you are going to knock him dead! Smile

Your outfit sounds lovely too watch Grin I love wearing stockings, used to wear them all the time and fully intend becoming that person again. It always felt a bit naughty. and sometimes draughty Tights just have the same appeal. Although I am quite attached to my M&S fleecy lined thermal ones at the moment Grin I too have never met a man who isn't into stockings. In the early days of dating The Ex I would turn up at his house wearing heels with nothing but bra, stockings and suspenders under my mac. See, I'm not such a prude after all Grin

TimeForMeAndDD · 10/02/2012 16:26

MrsC is 'hotbutdim' his user name or a name you have given him?

And why isn't he boyfriend material cos he sounds lovely. I don't mind a bent willy desperate so if you don't want him you can send him my way Grin

Snapespeare · 10/02/2012 16:30

oh I'm not going to get drunk & shag him.

but i might stroke his cock arm.

Grin
DatingMinefield · 10/02/2012 16:33

Thank you MsC. I'm sure hotbutdim will work out fine, once you've sympathetically helped him work through his issues. Grin

Snape I don't LOL very often, but that was good. LOL! Grin