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first time domestic violence advice wanted

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J4J · 24/01/2012 16:16

Should he stay or leave? I am so confused. I am married to a usually loving husband and have 4 small children. 2 days ago he became unusually angry and punched me in the face - I was knocked unconscious. It happened in front of all the children. When I came round my 4 year old daughter was holding me and crying shouting wake up. When I looked at her her first words were 'oh mummy I thought you were dead'. This is out of character for my husband. He was initially in denial and told me to get off the floor and stop pretending. It was not until my dad phoned him at work the following day and told him I was in hospital getting x-rayed that I think he realised what he did. This is a first offence so the police after arresting him when he got back from work released him with a caution. Do I let him stay in the house now. Part of me still loves him very much and another part of me is completely shocked and upset. I am really hurting inside and want things just to be normal. Statistically it may happen again but I'm not sure it will as he is a good man who needs to manage his anger but yet he knocked me out....

OP posts:
Jux · 23/03/2012 18:46

J and waterlego, keep your chins up! J keep going, and please don't hesitate to call the cops the minute you feel threatened by anyone. Waterlego, you'll have no compunction about doing that, will you?

Bobyan · 13/04/2012 21:29

How are you OP?
Thinking about how you are...

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